Dangers of Social Media

[Lindypops56]

Has anyone else had to restrict access to sites like Facebook for their vulnerable children?

My son is 34 with ASD -and learning disability. He’s very computer savvy but has no social awareness of inappropriate language and has got into trouble with unfettered access to the internet in the past. It also causes him enormous stress and anxiety. We’ve now removed his iPad as he was leaving his supported living complex to access unrestricted Wi-Fi outside in the town!

He is understandably upset as it’s also limited his ability to call us and access the harmless aspects of tne internet. Whilst we want to keep him safe we also don’t want to be overly punitive. He still has an Xbox and full TV access with Sky etc.

Any thoughts or advice would be very welcome

[Annabellelily Community friend]

Hi there. So sorry to hear this, it’s definitely a very difficult situation to handle, especially as I’m sure he’s frustrated when you’re only looking out for his best interest. I think you’re doing a great job, as again, this is very hard to navigate.

I have no real advice as I’ve not been the one to deal with this kind of thing directly, but if you do decide to re-allow access to social media, then there’s ways that you can restrict content, but you could also have his accounts also logged into your device, so you can keep a very close eye and can intervene. It’s definitely tricky though. I’m wishing you and your family the best of luck!

[Lindypops56 in reply to Annabellelily]

Thank you! As you say it’s very tricky to navigate but we know we are doing this in his best interests.