Help please

[Ilovecows]

Can someone help me no where I can go I need to leave my house I tried asking everyone I rang everyone no one helps you because people lie no one is helping me I’m in danger and people talk to my social worker and the social workers don’t tell the truth people told me to recording everything but I can’t deal with anymore I just want to get away from people that’s been bad

[Michele1965]

Hi there,Maybe take a moment to list all the reasons why you need to leave your house and once you look at the reasons you might think of the person who is best suited to help you address the reasons. If you have a close friend or relative who knows you well and that you feel really listens to you and has helped you with other problems they might be your first point of contact.

You sound upset and when we are anxious everything can become overwhelming. Maybe list the things that are currently working well for you in your life or home or community and see how these positives may help you to address the issues that are of concern.

I understand that people often don't listen properly or hear what you are trying to communicate. This is so very frustrating. This has happened often and will continue to do so as I try to navigate the very complex and unnecessarily complicated world of social care as advocate for my son. One ally can make a big difference. I found one eventually but I appreciate fully the exhaustion of trying to get change. Especially from a system that is loathe to think out if the box and see everyone as individual and unique and of equal value.

I wish you strength and keep the faith in believing that someone you know or are signposted to, will give you the support you want.

[49Twister]

It’s so upsetting not being able to help you. What area do you live? Hope someone can help you. x Can no-one from HealthUnlocked/MENCAP not help this girl?

[Ilovecows in reply to 49Twister]

People keep not listening and making me talk to them when I don’t want to and I told manager of care I want to give them notice I don’t like people saying I’m doing things I’m not someone said I was shouting

I had enough professionals make up things that go on your record all the time like they say you feel rejected you feel sad I don’t no what rejected means and I always say I’m not ok I don’t say sad they say you said you feel sad and angry no I didn’t say that someone said to me you said you find it hard to express yourself no I didn’t say that I don’t understand what that means so why would I say that people are so annoying I had enough of the way professionals bully people with disability and don’t tell the truth to make it make it look like we are making things up when they are doing bad things

[Ilovecows in reply to Ilovecows]

People abuse people with a disability and then they try to make it look like it’s us and make things up and put it on our record

[Ilovecows in reply to Ilovecows]

I didn’t no what was going on this been going on for years I had no idea I been talking to a lot of people I’m not ok anymore because of what they doing and no one does anything it’s gone to safeguarding no one does anything I don’t no why people are getting paid there not doing there job

[Ilovecows in reply to Ilovecows]

In my old supported housing some staff bully to you and I showed someone proof and my social worker said but the proof you got is from a friend that lives there they got problems so it won’t be true your proof it’s not fair that’s what they do I thought a social worker job is to make sure people are ok not no that people are getting abused and trying to hide it it’s like they want people to be abused I don’t no what’s wrong with them

[Ilovecows in reply to Ilovecows]

My old social worker said a lot of people didn’t like my old place

lots of people complained about my old place a staff from there complained

My friends from there complained

a staff from there got suspended

It went to safeguarding the social workers no about it and when I show them my proof they try to say I got problems my friends got problems so it won’t be true

Even when they no it’s gone to safeguarding people with disabilities are not safe with these idiots that call therself social workers and professionals

I no some are good but I haven’t been lucky to have a good one

[Ilovecows in reply to Ilovecows]

They are very clever and no how to make sure they never get in trouble police are the same there all on the same side social workers police you think the police would do something but they don’t they abuse people people with disabilities to

I can’t believe no one is doing anything lots of people in the UK complaining about social services and mental health services no one does anything police try and get good people in trouble they should be doing something about the people that been bad some police should go to jail

I like to play police when I was a kid but now they make me sick

in my old supported house the manager told me that my social worker told them to ring the police on me and they ring the police on me when I not done anything

[CoyoteU]

There maybe a few buildings that have a safe place sign on them in your area there may be someone that can help you in there.