Update.

[Pasrel]

I wrote about my sons increasing violent behaviour a while ago and received some lovely post that helped a lot. I am seeing our doctor on Thursday to try and get a psychologist appointment. I've also spoken to social services who are looking into sheltered accomodation in our area.thats a big step and I feel I'm letting my son down dut I know I cant cope with his behaviour. When we talked about it before he would become upset but he seems to have accepted it this time. I will post again as things progress.

[BenjiB]

That all sounds positive! Please don’t feel bad. My son went to residential college in September. His behaviour isn’t wonderful either. I was dreading how he would be there and didn’t think he’d settle. It caused many sleepless nights. However he loves it. He has a very busy life and is thriving. He came home at half term and seemed pretty anxious to get back afterwards. The whole family has benefitted. X

[Hidden]

I see some of my former pupilss who are very happy in supported living settings nowadays. I hope it works out for your son.

[49Twister]

That’s great news Pasrel, I really hope things work out for you both. Taking the first step is so hard and you’ve done that, you will feel guilty because your a parent it’s human nature. My son was 41 and I was 67 when he went into supported living 4 years ago now, and I realise it was the right decision as I know I could not do this full time now. Good luck for the future and please keep in touch on how things are going. As I have said before this doesn’t happen overnight but you have started the ball rolling which gives you both time to get used to the idea.

[I_am_a_sibling Survey Community friend]

Hi Pasrel thank you so much for coming back and letting us know how you are. It's really positive to hear that things are in motion to help your Son. You're not letting him down by looking at other accommodation for him - far from it - you're thinking about his welfare and your own too, and that's vital. Huge well done to you, I know it's not easy taking these steps. Keep us updated, it's great to hear from you Fx

[Spujo]

Best of luck with the transition x