We have two adult children living at homeOur daughter is the eldest at 21yrs , and had Learning Difficulties and Dyspraxia.
My son is younger( nearly 19yrs) a getting more and hostile about his sister ( and some of atypical behaviour).
He also has Dyspraxia, but only has modest/ marginal impact on him.
He seems to blame me for his sister ( ticks a d idiosyncratic behaviour)and dismissive , hurtful and disrespectful to both me and his sister
I am finding this more and more distressing.
This is causing arguments and making home life very difficult , I think he feels we tolerate her and let her get away with too much
Any ideas or suggestions
I have tried to get him to understand his sister's needs, but seems to lack empathy
Any suggestions?