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I should be running a lovely 10K race tonight but Iโ€™ve just reached the decision not to do it. It was a bit of a seesaw of a thought process during the day but eventually the sensible me had the loudest voice and told โ€œthe niggle isnโ€™t too bad and Iโ€™m sure itโ€™ll be okโ€ me where to go ๐Ÿคฃ

Iโ€™ve spent far too much time on the IC with that attitude and Iโ€™m trying hard to change my behaviour. But honestly, itโ€™s hard isnโ€™t it?

Nothing major. Iโ€™ve just had a bit of an ache around my hip/lower back. Iโ€™m pretty sure itโ€™s caused by my new orthotics. Iโ€™ve been building up the time getting used to them and I just think I need to take it a bit more slowly.

But that thought process getting to the final decision!!! Blimey. I wish it was straightforward.

I woke up this morning and immediately thought nope, I wonโ€™t be running tonight. Itโ€™s too sore. But as the day went on it felt quite a bit better so I thought itโ€™s on again, it feels ok, Iโ€™ll be fine.

Then I kneeled down and thought no, itโ€™s still there. Is it worth it? But itโ€™s a lovely route, Iโ€™ve not done it before and I really want the bling ๐Ÿ™„

I started making plans for what I would wear, what and when I would eat, what time Iโ€™d need to leave home, where Iโ€™d park, etc, etc.

Then I put on my shoes with my old orthotics and had a test run around the garden. Oh! I can feel it now. Would it get worse during 10K? Maybe the run will loosen everything up? (who am I kidding?) The bargaining we make with ourselves!

Then a new voice popped up in my ear, โ€œhoy you. Arenโ€™t you supposed to be more sensible? Remember all that time on the IC? Do you really want to go there again? Most of your injuries have been caused by running through niggles. Itโ€™ll be your own fault you knowโ€ฆ.. nagโ€ฆ.nag, nagโ€ฆ.?โ€

Then I remembered the new me. The sensible me. The sensible me made the decision. Iโ€™m not running it.

My other thought is that I have another race next week and I really need to be ready for it because I really, really want the bling. Itโ€™s awesome ๐Ÿ˜

Letโ€™s hope Mrs Sensible goes on holiday ๐Ÿคฃ

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linda9389 profile image
linda9389AdministratorMarathon

Oh, I feel your pain IP. So sorry you have niggles again. It's such a rollercoaster of emotions and negotiating with yourself isn't it. I felt sure it was the wrong decision... until I got to the punchline, and now I'm with you 100%. How very grown up of you IP ๐Ÿ˜

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to linda9389

I know ๐Ÿ˜‡ Iโ€™m not known for being a grown up so this is hard ๐Ÿคฃ

But yes, the thought of the bling next week was a big part of the decision making process ๐Ÿ˜

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linda9389AdministratorMarathon in reply to Irishprincess

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Sandraj39 profile image
Sandraj39Half Marathon

Oh IP- you have absolutely made the right decision - frustrating though it is! You can now listen to your body over the next week and hopefully be ready for that next bit of bling! Fingers crossed for you! ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ™‚

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to Sandraj39

Getting to that decision is not a straight path is it?

But the bling beckons ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Beachcomber66AdministratorHalf Marathon

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ Tough but brilliant decision made your Highness!

.Just the sort of common sense, sense of proportion and determination we need to see in our admins ๐Ÿซฃ.

Ok, the prospect of better bling next week helped you through a bit, but that doesnโ€™t matter. Sometimes the run we donโ€™t do is the best run (CB must have said that; I couldnโ€™t have made it up!). Hereโ€™s hoping that things clear up quickly; you have had more than share of IC. Stretches for me tonight ๐Ÿ‘.

Irishprincess profile image
IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to Beachcomber66

Haha I wish I was this sensible all the time BC.

But even once is good ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿคฃ

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linda9389AdministratorMarathon in reply to Beachcomber66

Hmm. Don't think I read the job description properly ๐Ÿ™ˆ. Or maybe it's been updated and I didn't get the revision ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to linda9389

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜

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Beachcomber66AdministratorHalf Marathon

I think that there is a lot of heart versus head in running. We canโ€™t get it right every time, and the drive that sometimes makes for poor decisions is the same drive which spurs us on to achieve things we never thought possible. I should listen to myself occasionally !๐Ÿ˜‚

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to Beachcomber66

So true. Not the listening to yourself bit, the other bit !

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Shake-and-runHalf Marathon

oh IP I get your frustration. The effort you have already invested in training , the money you spent on the entry, you donโ€™t want to waste it. Then there is the bling you so desperately want and the way you convince yourself that you will run it off in the first couple of laps. Iโ€™m so very impressed that you told these little monkeys to go do one and instead listened to the voice reminding you that something is wrong and running a race will not make it better, how much you will despise that medal as you stare at it from the IC for the best part of the summer. Good Girl, Good Girl, so proud of you. ๐Ÿฅฐ Get better soon.

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to Shake-and-run

This is it! You did that mind-reading course didnโ€™t you? Although I doubt Iโ€™d ever despise a medal ๐Ÿ™€

MissUnderstanding profile image
MissUnderstandingHalf Marathon

Aw IP so sorry to hear this, Iโ€™ve been there too and itโ€™s so hard. Youโ€™ve done the right thing and itโ€™s brave and sensible and difficult. Sending hugs your way. Youโ€™ll be back โค๏ธ

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to MissUnderstanding

One of the great things about being here is that others understand exactly!

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cheekychipmunksHalf Marathon

Fabulous decision IP! Not fabulous that you have a tiny niggle, but the fact thatโ€™s just that; tiny. Imagine if youโ€™d have run this evening and had to pull up, scuppering next weekโ€™s race and possibly subjecting yourself to another long stint on the IC.

You may have dodged a bullet there, and if it ends up being nothing, thatโ€™s great too! Take it easy and look forward to getting your mitts on your beautiful bling next week! ๐Ÿฅ‡๐Ÿ˜

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to cheekychipmunks

Youโ€™d be a great coach Munks! Love your approach ๐Ÿ˜

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Dexy510 Miles

Sounds like a good decision IP. Itโ€™s ridiculous the amount of to-ing and fro-ing we do before we finally get there. But get there you did.

I hope you feel more ready next week for the race you really want to do. Canโ€™t have you missing out on too much bling.

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to Dexy5

If it was all too easy it wouldnโ€™t be exciting Dexy! ๐Ÿคฃ

Oldfloss profile image
OldflossAdministrator

Sensible... gosh that word... better to say being kind to yourself and listening to that body:)

Sometimes we do have to do that...however hard it may be... and that bling that is waiting, will shine all the brighter... I hope the niggle and twinge twins make a rapid exit now !xxx

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon

Haha the niggle and twinge twins ๐Ÿคฃ I know them very well Floss even though they are not welcome xxx

drl212 profile image
drl212

I'm sorry to hear! But it sounds like you've made a wise decision listening to your body.

I want to see the bling you've given up and the bling you're going for next week.

:-)

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to drl212

Oooh I haven't dared check the bling from last night. That would really hurt ๐Ÿคฃ

Iโ€™ll post a photo of the bling next week when I get my hands on it. The organisers sent out a photo of it with their original email and of course I had to sign up. Donโ€™t know why more organisers donโ€™t show a photo of the medalโ€ฆ.

drl212 profile image
drl212 in reply to Irishprincess

And what 5K bling can you recommend?

Iโ€™m just starting outโ€ฆ

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to drl212

If you search โ€œ5K races in my areaโ€ you should have them pop up.

Race For Life also have 5K races raceforlife.cancerresearchu...

Some other sites here:

letsdothis.com/gb/running-e...

findarace.com/running-event...

runningcalendar.co.uk

Enjoy your browsing and donโ€™t forget to tell us here in our Events Post each month so we can give you a pompom cheer beforehand! Good luck ๐Ÿ€

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drl212 in reply to Irishprincess

Thanks very much! Just signed up for two...Finsbury on Sunday and Regent's Park in 2 weeks.

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to drl212

Oh wow! No hanging around with you! Would you like pompom cheers? If so, give me the links if you can.

healthunlocked.com/marathon...

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to drl212

Is this Sunday this one? runthrough.co.uk/finsbury-p...

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drl212 in reply to Irishprincess

letsdothis.com/gb/e/finsbur...

I think they are the same...

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drl212 in reply to Irishprincess

letsdothis.com/gb/e/runthro...

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Beachcomber66AdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to drl212

Hi drl212โ€ฆ.I will add you into the post ๐Ÿ™‚ Hope you have a great run๐Ÿ‘

drl212 profile image
drl212 in reply to Beachcomber66

Thanks so much!!!

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to drl212

My wonderful working partner, Beachcomber66 offered to update the pompom post for me as I didnโ€™t have access for most of the day. But Iโ€™m back now and see your name on the pompom cheer! Good luck and have fun ๐Ÿ€

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over61andstilltryingHalf Marathon

Well done to you! I think to make the decision to not run is a lot harder than choosing to run. Here's to a fully running healthy you for the next race. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to over61andstilltrying

Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚ Tried a little trot today in my old orthotics and everything seems okโ€™ish ๐Ÿคž

Curlygurly2 profile image
Curlygurly2Half Marathon

Oh IP, it sounds like you really did all you could to make sure it was safe. I'm so sorry, that must be very hard

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to Curlygurly2

It was the right decision CG. Iโ€™m trying to be over rather than under cautious as Iโ€™ve been in the past, hence so much time on the IC!

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SueAppleRun10 Miles

Oh wow.....isn't it hard? I had very similar dialog going on last year for New Forest, for different reasons, and came back miserable and disappointed in myself, wishing I'd been strong enough to cancel. Well done on listening to sensible you....you will run stronger next time and that injury couch gets mighty uncomfortable x

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to SueAppleRun

It is hard. Part of my reasoning was that I wanted to enjoy the race too and if I had run then I would have been worried about the niggle the whole time!

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misswobbleMarathon

Oh darn it IP! So sorry to hear youโ€™ve had to cancel a race! Itโ€™s the pits isnโ€™t it ๐Ÿ˜ค. The mental tussle is THE worst!

Itโ€™s done now so we move on ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿ…

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IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to misswobble

I did do the one the week after as I really wanted that bling! ๐Ÿ…

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misswobbleMarathon

Yay! Thatโ€™s the spirit ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ…

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