Hello. I am 38 years old unmarried and no children. My partner pushes me to get pregnant. I have primary lymphedema in both legs (from toes to hips) for 20 years. I wear tight and strong stocking from toes to hips and pants all day.
I know that my pregnancy will be difficult process and my lymphedema would worsen. I refuse to be pregnant and to suffer but he is pushing me very hard.
I feel bad and he does not take into account the fact that my condition will get worse and I will suffer.
From my side, I am willing to be a foster mother or adop child, but he wants a child from his sperm. I can also give up the process of motherhood.
I would love to hear opinions and advice.