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Dads home after 85 days in hospital with covid , 73 of those ventilated

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So proud of my dads determination and positive attitude, hes now home after only 9 days on a ward. He’s three and half stone lighter and very emotional but he’s home . Walking with a stick but telling me he won’t have it much longer . He’s astounded the doctors and nurses with his recovery so far.

After the odds where stacked against him in so many ways and after a lot of setbacks he got there in the end. I believe prayers and positive thoughts go a long way . Please don’t give up on your loved ones while they are still fighting we have to fight with them.

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Ferham

What a wonderful week for loved ones coming home, I'm delighted to see this. Again how marvellous he is only using a stick . He is inspirational .

My husband has come home nearly 3 stone lighter, I think he has gained several pounds this week with home cooking .

I really agree, positive thoughts helped me and my family through this . Enjoy this precious gift we have been given xx

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DrARDS

Fantastic news! Super pleased for you and your family. Wishing you all the very best in his rehab journey X

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Garbagestar34

This is so amazing to hear. I’ve had my dad in the ICU for 20 days. I long for the day I can be with him. But this is such a horrible rollercoaster ride. 💔

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Rgsable in reply to Garbagestar34

It is horrible and you must be strong for him. It is hard but with time things will get better. This group has a lot of post that will give you strength to carry on being strong. Keep the hope x

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Garbagestar34 in reply to Rgsable

Thank You! I’m trying.

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Mccarthy0702 in reply to Garbagestar34

Keep going you will be amazed at the strength you find to cope with whatever is thrown at you. Hope things get better soon xxx

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Garbagestar34 in reply to Mccarthy0702

Thank you! ❤️

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Rgsable

Indeed prayers and positive thoughts go a long way. Well done to your dad 😁👍

Was he able to walk when he was discharged from the ward?

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Mccarthy0702

Yer he is walking with a stick , he did the stairs yesterday and then the physio discharged him . He’s took a while to get up to bed tonight but he did it , his determination is second to none xz

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HopefulA

Wonderful news, so happy for you all!

Wishing your dad all the best xx💜

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Sepsur

That’s is such brilliant news, I wish you and your family a straightforward period of rehab.

Our group offers free help when your loved one is ready.

At Monday 11 we have an exercise group aimed at people 6months+ from discharge.

Wednesday 11 we have a gentle yoga class - we held our first one to about 20 people last week - no-one has any experience of yoga - most were sceptical but willing to give it a go - all were won over.

Fri11 - gentler exercise group with newer patients & specifically aimed at Covid patients. Family members are welcome & encouraged. What everyone liked about the yoga is how much it helped with breathing.

We also have a virtual drop-in on Thursday 6.50pm

All of this is done on Zoom ( successfully) and it translates fine.

Email info.icustepschester@gmail.com

Or check out our website for everything else we do.

icustepschester.org

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Malletus

What fantastic news. Well done to your Dad and may he go from strength to strength.

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stevet11753

Another homecoming! Great to hear. Well done your dad, here's to his continuing recovery 💪 🙏

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RiaJam

Well done that dad! Great news and gave me some positivity for my brother’s future.

My bro is 80 days in ICU today - he is doing well. He has had a trache for the last 4 weeks which they may remove next week and remains on low support ventilation / CPAP and dialysis- but he is getting there. He’s lost 5 stone (some of it needed to go 😀) but once he’s able to eat he will gain some of it back for sure.

I can FaceTIme him most days and it’s great to see him progressing - slowly and steadily. There were times we didn’t think he would make it but he’s such a fighter. All I can say is keep positive - we have the best medical staff and they will do all they can to get people through.

Wishing your dad well on his journey to full recovery.

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Mccarthy0702 in reply to RiaJam

Sounds like your brother is moving in the right direction. Dads time on the ventilator seemed never ending .

There is hope for everyone , my dad was touch and go so many time’s .

Positive thoughts do go a long way , wishing your brother a full recovery also xx

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NDFan65

Wonderful news! And even better that he’s on his feet walking and has such a determined attitude. Wishing him and your family all the best!

Hi I see you posted this some time ago but I was just shocked to read your dad's journey.could you tell me did he suffer any infections whilst on a ventilator ? X

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Mccarthy0702

Yes he did he got a infection two weeks into his journey from one of his lines . He would have a good week then his temp would go up again and another infection would start . Then the week before he was fully weaned he caught ventilated associated pneumonia. It was a long journey of ups and downs but he got there in the end x

in reply to Mccarthy0702

That's just how my dad journey is he has vent pnemonia it's so awful. Lovely to hear survivors story against this evil thing!! X

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jld85 in reply to Mccarthy0702

I just came across this post, just reading through some things. Seems like my dad is going through the same currently. About a week ago they diagnosed him with hospital acquired pneumonia and then also a UTI, from removing his catheter. So he’s been on antibiotics since he was diagnosed. He’s also been running a fever. The last day or two, didn’t seem to have much of a fever, but today it was higher. They also had to bump his oxygen up because his oxygen had went down some with all of this. Did yours have this issue? Where they had to turn his oxygen requirement up?

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Anuur44

Am so happy to read this post and it’s giving me even more hope. Wow walking with stock after so many days bed bound. My mum is ventilated more than 70 days and I hoping we will get there to. Please keep providing updates on his progress

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Mccarthy0702

He’s been home since June , he no longer needs any aids to get about . He was back driving within 4 weeks of being home . He does get breathless and has scarring of his lungs but all other organs are undamaged and working fine. Hoping his lungs improve in time .

Hoping you have a good outcome with your mum she’s definitely a fighter , 70 days is a long time . Stay strong and positive vibes sent your way xxx

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Mimi407

Thank you for that positive upbeat message

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