I am new here, posting as carer for someone with an acquired brain injury.
My wife suffered a brain haemorrhage in February of 2022 and has not fully recovered. Unfortunately, we are finding it very difficult to get information about her condition from the hospital that treated her.
It would be very helpful for me, as her carer, to get a clearer picture of what care we can reasonably expect. For example, she was supposed to have a cerebral angiogram 6 months after discharge, but that took more than 9 months to get. That was 2 months ago now, and so far we have not been briefed on the results. Is that normal?
A meeting with the consultant that was scheduled for this month, that is, 12 months after the haemorrhage, but at the last minute it was pushed to June. When I queried this we got a new date, in April, but still a long way off when you are living with no clear picture of what the prognosis is. Meanwhile she is experiencing a range of distressing symptoms that may, or may not, be related to her ABI.
Her GP surgery have shown no interest in her situation. It failed to follow up on the consultant's instructions to monitor her Haemoglobin and treat appropriately.
No meeting with the consultant until more than 100 days after the latest scan seems wrong to me.
I realise the NHS is chronically under-resourced and drastically under-staffed relative to demand. But I have to get my wife the care she needs. Is there any way I can move things forward, or do we just need to learn to live with this situation?
Any input and advice much appreciated.
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