I have been on this service a few days and want to ask advise. It's a complicated family matter but the basics are. I have been asking my mum for years for the bank statements from my disability trust fund. She has said I can have them many times but always has a flimsy excuse. Has refused twice to sign letters to give financial advisers access to the account. I spent years earning little interest after the financial crash as she would let me close the account but not have the statements. I then wouldn't have the account closed unless she would provide the statements. She is my mum has done lots for me but I can't get over this. I have been dependent on her all the while suffering terrible nightmares about her stealing my compensation money. Have had lots of councelling about this and told mum. Tried getting family involved but she always has something to say or do that means I don't get my bank statements. Headway solicitors have referred me to other solicitors who have then referred me to legal aid who I have not contacted. My headway group leader thinks I should go to the police. But she is mum and done so much for me in other ways. But I have lost thousands directly and more indirectly through mum doing this. I am out of work through health and we would likea family in the near future. Should I go to the police?