My son suffered a hypoxic brain injury 10 months ago, I could do with some advice please as to how to handle a particular issue we are facing. He has started to urinate in our rear garden when he pops outside to smoke a cigarette; our garden is overlooked by many other houses. I always encourage him to go to the loo before he goes outside for his smoke, but within 5 minutes of going outside he starts to urinate on the lawn or flower pots, when I try to ask him to stop he refuses and is now becoming quite rude with it. Since leaving hospital (over 3 months ago) he has had some behavioural issues but he is adamant that he does not care whatever the consequences of his actions may be with regard to his urinating.
I fully understand that everyone’s injury and recovery is unique, but if anyone out there has gone through a similar experience I would gratefully appreciate some advice on how best to handle the situation