life's hard

[jacs17]

why is it not one person in authority understands your head yet even speaks to another about you,

as if your not even there ,,,

[Kirk5w7]

Hi Jacs, I remember saying to a doctor at the rehab unit, " does it make you feel good standing there over me while I'm in a wheelchair?" And I followed it with " l may have a brain injury that doesn't make me stupid, I'm an intelligent woman". Needless to say he didn't respond to either statement, but it felt good saying it.

Janet x

[angelite in reply to Kirk5w7]

Janet, I almost said 'Does it make you feel good, playing mind chess with a brain damaged woman' when neurologist kept blanking all my questions ! x

[Bradybunch35]

My husband complains about it all the time. Try asserting yourself make " you " heard. People assume a lot and don't always get it right xx

[jacs17 in reply to Bradybunch35]

not as easy as that as my health comes last apparently,short story I was assaulted then moved to my home with carers for a year cops moved me to were I am,for safety,ha,eversince I had no sink door,bathroom,fireescape an been stuck in middle floor flat,cos I asked for re[pairs im being evicted but all sorts I keep asking for is an advocate,because no one understands my head,ways confusion,moods an I speak back to front when im pressured.,or mind goes blankl,i pacifically asked does it matter if im alive an breathing ?because your all drowning me an the noise,an sacredness I felt never mind try describing my thoughts like a foreign,language

[jacs17]

wow asserted myself to say if inm chucked out an there's no help il end up dead ,wow,,,never seen the story telling added on to such an extent 2 police vans came as then they told my carer that had call saying locked her in bathroom,an was hitting her wow,even the carer said whoever said that to you was lying,as she {meaning me to cops } was upset hysterical;crying because her head felt like was going to burst,so no I don't think il be saying anything again,my ptsd,nerves Ann faith flew off the radar,how so when we get upset were lied about because they don't understand you I cant harm a fly never mind what happened to me still in shock