B will be in a new rehab next week and its her birthday. A mutual friend has suggested a few of us go to visit B for a small birthday gathering. I usually see B alone as I can see that she is unable to follow conversation if people talk over each other or the conversation is full of banter and questions. I've also noticed that B can become more easily upset when there is a group.
But it is her birthday.
Does anyone on the forum feel able to share their views on whether a small group coming together is worth the disadvantage of being made tired or a bit irritable or not feeling part of the conversation? I'm thinking it will be really nice for B to have a bit of a 'do' on her birthday, but I'd appreciated your views as I want it to be a good birthday not a stressful one for her.