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**Sensitive** - after a long road she is here πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

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Hi all, thank you to this forum for keeping me going during the dark days, of which there were plenty across the last five years. It's shown me how much we infertility warriors can help eachother, advocate for ourselves, and keep determining how to fight differently for our future families. We have to sacrifice far too much to get success no matter the specific route each of us may take to get to the stage of writing these messages. It's not fair, and I never have forgotten that even with my successful pregnancy. I genuinely don't believe I'd be in this position without the advice and experiences of the other women in this forum. My little girl was born via emergency c section on Saturday late afternoon. My preeclampsia spiked and became severe and my lovely planned c section got moved and she arrived at 37+4 weeks, absolutely perfect and melting our hearts although the experience was quite nerve-wracking. We are both doing well although they're still trying to sort my ongoing blood pressure management and my legs are the size of tree trunks with the edema!

The journey has been stressful, and as I say so much of the joy of this experience can be robbed with repeat loss, negative responses to treatment and that cruel passage of time.

But now, finally - for me, she is here. I wasn't sure I would ever get to say that. I hope that whatever path each of us takes, more women going forward get the opportunity to write the same as I know it's not that way right now. Either due to lack of treatment clarity, money, mental health - the fact we can't all get here isn't fair at all. I wish everyone the best with their personal journeys and may many more end with a picture and a "they're here!" message to this wonderful group of people. πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

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Chompers13x

I have followed your journey and I am so incredibly happy for you! Congratulations! Xxx

My baby girl arrived 4 weeks ago. I couldn’t agree with your post more. Enjoy every second xx

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Star241

ah congratulations she is gorgeous wishing you a quick recovery ❀️

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Habibi87

such a lovely news and a very beautiful baby πŸ’• huge congratulations

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Skittles11

Huge congratulations to you πŸ‘ and thank you for keeping me going during the dark days through all of your knowledge and support xx

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LozTC

I have been keeping an eye on your posts to see how you were getting on ! Congratulations she is beautiful , so so happy for you xxx

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Millbanks

Oh wow!!! I'm so so happy to see this post my lovely - such a happy moment for you ❀️

She's absolutely glorious - you must be over the moon.

Nothing can really take away the pain of the past years but this is a happy new start and hopefully the pain will lessen with time.

Much love to you all xxx

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Simmokt

Congratulations x

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Milo2011

congratulations!

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Hi. Minnesota. What a perfect little daughter. You will know love like you’ve never known before. Welcome to the mad world. xxxxx’s for daughter and a gentle hug for you. Diane

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Leii9

Congratulations!!!! She's gorgeous 😍

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Sw1234

Congratulations. Enjoy the special time with your daughter ❀️ πŸ’•

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Krystal_43

She’s here 😍😍😍 I’m so happy for you. What a dreamboat. Enjoy every moment - you’ve been so much to get to this point, I hope it’s everything you dreamed of and more. Xxx

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Miracle43

congratulations πŸ’– she’s beautiful. Hope you are doing ok xx

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ValaI

This fills my heart full with joy and smile on my face, she is gorgeous as her mama’s resilience 😍. Congrats and may you β€˜infect’ us with a same beautiful outcome! Xxoxo

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butterfliez

such lovely news , many congratulations on your beautiful daughter 🩷

Pleased to hear she arrived safely after preeclampsia. X

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Sweethear

she is gorgeous congratulations am happy it all went well for you both wishing you a wonderful happy life

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Cinderella5

Absolutely delighted for you! We'll done Mumma, she is beautiful. Hope you are well.πŸ’–πŸ₯°πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰xxx

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CXCYCZ

congratulations. Hoping I can be one of those β€˜she’s/he’s here people. Enjoy every minute.

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Asha82

Congratulations on the birth of your precious baby girl❀️

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Nabsal

congratulations very happy for you

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Brandy888

congratulations, she’s beautiful x

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Eternalwarrior

HUGE congratulations!! She is GORGEOUS!!!πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯° Pre-eclampsia can be so dangerous... Take care of yourself and I hope you feel better soon. Enjoy every moment. Lots of love ❀️xx

Congratulations!!!!! She’s a wee beauty !!πŸ’•πŸ’•

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Twiglet2

congratulations what a beautiful little miracle πŸ’œ well done you! πŸ’ͺπŸΌπŸ‘πŸ» xx

Huge congratulations!! You know how happy I am for you and how proud I am for what you have endured! She is absolutely perfect! xxx

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NemoFish

Congratulations, she’s very cute!

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Citizenerased83

Congratulations. Enjoy all your cuddles. She is so precious. Take care x

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Boo718

I love this 😘😘😘 huge congratulations to you. This is amazing news. What a beautiful little girl. I hope you recover quickly and get home to start your little family. I love seeing messages like this. I was the same as you and never thought I’d ever get to write one but I did in June and I really hope more of you get to do it too xxx

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Weegran20

Wow Congratulations to you both πŸ’enjoy your future life with your precious girl . πŸ₯‚πŸŽ‰

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Cica22

Congratulations! I’m so pleased for you πŸ’• xx

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Blessed5510

She is beautiful! Congratulations!

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Mrs_MT

You probably don’t remember me but our ivf journies intertwined in 2020. I think we both had a medicated round at the same time. I haven’t been on this forum for awhile but thought I’d check in on you to see how you were doing. What wonderful news and welcome to your baby girl. I am so happy that you have her in your arms. Thanks for sharing your journey with me, and for being there at a time when this was all new and scary for me. Lots of love xxx

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