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OTD tomorrow. So scared.

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well this is my first cycle of IVF and it’s my official test date tomorrow. I don’t think I’ve ever been so scared of anything in my life.

This has been such a long journey, with so many knock backs. I have never in my life had a positive pregnancy test and I’m not sure I can take another negative 😩😢

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Joeysjourney

it's nerve-wracking isn't it! I also held out till test day as I couldn't face a negative! Sending you lots of baby dust, luck and love xxx

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Kcp289 in reply toJoeysjourney

same to you. When is your OTD x

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Klndmr

You've got this! Just wnated to wish you all the best of luck and I hope you share some good news tomorrow! 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🤗🤗🤗🤗🌻🌻🌻🌻

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Kiri23

Good luck for tomorrow 🍀

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Kcp289

an update.

It was finally a positive. I can’t quite believe it.

Thank you everyone for the support. I hope you all get that positive too 😀 xx

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Sparklylife in reply toKcp289

Congratulations!! 🥰🧡 Very happy for you! Wishing you a healthy pregnancy!

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Mudra85

OTD date nerves are the worst, but I've just read below that it was positive, which is great news! Can I ask whether you had any symptoms during your two week wait?

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Kcp289 in reply toMudra85

hi, yeah I have had symptoms. I’ve not had any bleeding but I have had cramps. I’ve had some nausea and weird things like I’ve suddenly gone off cups off tea. Plus waking up hungry

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Mudra85 in reply toKcp289

Thanks Kcp289 I'm getting ready for my second transfer after more than a year (first transfer was a chemical pregnancy). I'm already dreading the two week wait, testing and potentially more disappointment.

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Kcp289 in reply toMudra85

I wish you all the luck in the world. Hopefully it’ll be ok this time. It’s so scary how much can go wrong but one step at a time x

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Mudra85 in reply toKcp289

Thank you, wishing you all the very best too! Definitely one step at a time 🙂 x

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B4mb1

Congrats!!! Did you have any symptoms?

I’m in the same spot my OTD was yesterday but I still haven’t tested. Clinic fo HPT and then beta if positive. I’m so scared and can’t bring myself to test. Im currently away so delaying until I get back home because I don’t want to ruin the trip.

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Kcp289 in reply toB4mb1

hi, I completely get that. I was absolutely terrified of testing. I have had cramping but no bleeding. I’ve had nausea. Going off foods like cups of tea. Plus waking up hungry. Good luck with your test. Really hope it’s good news 😀

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B4mb1 in reply toKcp289

Thank you I hope so too. I’ve had so much cramping, I’ve been convinced my period was going to start any day or that it’s trying and the progesterone is just delaying it. I’m more hungry and feel like I need to go toilet more but I’ve also had “symptoms” many times before before IVF and nothing so 🤷🏽‍♀️.

All the best and wishing you a smooth and healthy pregnancy.

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Kcp289 in reply toB4mb1

thanks. I’m keeping everything crossed for you x

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B4mb1 in reply toKcp289

got my BFP FINALLY! nd my beta is 3000!

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Kcp289 in reply toB4mb1

wow congratulations, so happy for you 😀

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Rainbowbaby22

Good luck 👍

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Rainbowbaby22

congratulations x

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PrayingforMyBaby

me too...its my big day tomotrow...i really pray alot 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏..baby dust to us...im so scared i been sneezing alot too today...and also i have a dream last night that my test really is positive, then i wake up...i claim that dream will come true tomorrow. Lets hope for the best for us.

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Kcp289 in reply toPrayingforMyBaby

hi, how did it go today?

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PrayingforMyBaby

sad news its only one line..i cried so much this morning. I was really thing what went wrong....before my transfer ecerything looks good, my endometrium is fine, my tsh is good..may 6th day old embreyo is in good grade...i really dont know why it failed😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😥😥😥..im really depress. I think i will start my 3rd ivf after 2 months i decided to rest and told my husband about it.it really breaks my heart twice now. Its more painful than the first one.💔...

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Kcp289 in reply toPrayingforMyBaby

I’m so so sorry. I can’t imagine how you must be feeling. Just make sure you take time to grieve x

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PrayingforMyBaby in reply toKcp289

thanks so much...Good luck tp you..hope you will make it...share your good news tomorrow...baby dust to you... will try again soon. I will update you when and hope to see my baby soon and God will grant our hear desire..i not time for me now, i will wait humbly wait, i know theres a reason why not now. I take my time to be well.

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