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Today I am 17DP5DT. Our OTD on the 20th was our 3rd wedding anniversary so this was such amazing news. I am so so grateful to see these to lines but I can’t help worrying after what happened last time. I have to try and think positive, last time, by 14DP5DT I was already spotting so we have come further then we did the previous time that resulted in a chemical pregnancy. I am so thankful I have had no spotting so far, this time. I just really hope this pregnancy continues, I am constantly wiping checking for blood and constantly obsessively comparing my 2 lines with other people’s of the same timeframe and wondering why my line is not as strong… suppose this is what comes with the trauma of infertility and loss… I am trying my hardest to stay positive 🤞💪🏻 We have a early scan booked with the clinic for mid October 🤞 we make it that far and there is a heartbeat 💗

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Congratulations amazing news xxxx

Huge congratulations! What lovely strong lines!😍😍♥️♥️♥️

Congratulations 🧡 😍🎉

Congratulations! Lovely news! We are in a similar boat (although I am having some spotting). Petrified after previous losses. But hoping this is the one for us both! Best of luck for your scan lovely xxx

Thank you for your kind words! I hope so too! Good luck 🤞 xxx

That's brilliant! Congratulations 🥰

Congratulations Amazing news 🥰🥰🥰

That’s great news congratulations and all the best with the rest of your pregnancy 👍 x

It’s so hard not to worry. I will be in exactly the same position after my FET Monday. Already worrying my last embryo won’t survive. I have bled both my last pregnancies and miscarried at 7 weeks. Trying to be positive but it’s hard when you have been through trauma x

Thank you and good luck with your FET on Monday, wishing you sticky vibes xxx

Congratulations to you both! It’s so head when fertility struggles and loss take away the excitement and enjoyment of pregnancy. I am still struggling with anxiety at 19 weeks, so sadly not sure it ever goes away. But I am trying to enjoy and be grateful for every day I am pregnant - I hope you can get to that stage too. It’s also our 5th wedding anniversary today! Go celebrate xx

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Thank you for understanding and double congratulations to you both x

Aw, this is lovely news! Congratulations and I really hope you will have a healthy and lovely pregnancy! All the best! 🥰

Congratulations, today is a good day and that's all you can think about. I'm a bit further on than you and I can tell you I am still constantly worrying! Everything looks good so far. I'm pleased for you! Xx

Congratulations. I hope this baby sticks for you. Yes, bumby past changes the experience for us.

Congratulations! Brilliant news 👏 😀 👍 xx

Many congratulations hun 🌸🌸xx

Oh friend! Congratulations! It’s so tough when loss robs us of the joys that come along with pregnancy. It’s easier said than done trying to not live in fear, worry, anxiety, but just remember that all those things do is keep you from the present and experiencing the that happiness so try not to dwell too long! Sending prayers ❤️🙏

Congratulations! Your lines look good! I'm in the same boat as you. I've had one chemical and one miscarriage and I just find it very hard to relax. I analyse all the symptoms and panic when they fade. I wonder how to manage the next 8 months with this baby which we will hopefully get. I'm trying to stay in the present moment and think "right now I am pregnant". Sending you baby dust and sticky vibes!

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