Finally confirmed 2nd transfer was chemical

[Char2383]

What a rollercoaster after a week ago being on absolute cloud 9 and finally being pregnant! It’s so cruel.. so disappointing and almost feels like too much to start all over again.. sending everyone going through this hope and love (and maybe a lottery win!) X x

[Becatoms]

I am so very sorry.

Xx

[Char2383 in reply to Becatoms]

Hope you’re feeling a little bit better each day Beca x x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Char. Oh dear, so sorry to hear this, and I hope you've got plenty of support around you just now. Once you feel up to trying again, then ask about using low dose soluble aspirin and/or heparin to hopefully help prvent any clot formation and ensure good blood flow to your womb and its lining, if not tried before. Just a thought. Thinking of you. Diane

[Char2383 in reply to DianeArnold]

Hi Diane, thank you for your support and for that suggestion. We’re speaking to our Doctor next week so I’ll definitely ask about this going forward. Have a lovely weekend ahead x x

[Fingerscrossed38 in reply to Char2383]

HiSo sorry to hear about this.

Please read my bio. I hippie something I did can help you because I truly believe the ERA and Clexane for a rare during issue are the missing pierces of my puzzle. Don't accept "it's bad luck or chromosomal issues" I don't believe in bad luck! My embryos were pgs normal so no excuse for them ending in chemical! Xx I'm here if you have any questions

[Char2383 in reply to Fingerscrossed38]

Thank you so much for your reply, I’m definitely going to look into this for my next transfer, wishing you all the best and I’ll be in touch with any questions x x

[Joanna-Arabella1984 in reply to Fingerscrossed38]

Mine were pgs tested and I miscarried at 6 weeks. What did you add into the mix? I’m awaiting test results as I’ve had 3 miscarriages. Many thanks xx

[Lou7744]

I’m really sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs 💕💕 xx

[Char2383 in reply to Lou7744]

Thank you Lou, really appreciate it, infertility can be very lonely x x

[LuxFleur]

I'm so sorry. The same thing is happening to me.

[Char2383 in reply to LuxFleur]

I’m so so sorry to read this, I’ve been reading your updates and was really hopeful for you. I just saw your timeline and you’ve been through so much, I can not imagine. No one understands the trials of IVF and infertility, it’s like an endurance race and you’ve shown how f£&king strong you are. I really hope you’ll get the outcome you deserve, I know of women your age having success so if you want to carry on I really think you should. Sending you so much love and good energy. If you need a chat please reach out xxx

[FrancyItaly]

I’m so sorry to hear this, life can be so cruel. One day it will make sense, be strong 💕

[Char2383 in reply to FrancyItaly]

Thank you for your reply ❤️

[Goose12345]

Hi, I had the same a couple of months ago. It is very cruel. Take time and come back stronger xxx

[Char2383 in reply to Goose12345]

Thank you, yes we’re not going to let this break us, looking forward and trying to carry on enjoying life ❤️

[letro112]

Hi Char2383 .. I also transferred 2 x AA blasts this cycle... did beta yday and confirmed chemical pregnancy again. 4 rounds of ivf later .. so frustrating. Anyways my doctor rang me yday. She has advised I don't need an ERA as I'm getting implantation most months, but I do need an Emma and Alice test to rule out low grade infections. I also did do the Chicago bloods a few months back so was on aspirin, clexane, steroids and intralipids for this round but again wasn't enough. I now am going on plaquenil, humera, and IVIG before next cycle. And I can't transfer anything until my immunes are well below the trequired thresholds .. as we are effectively just wasting good embryos at the minute. However, we unfortunately have had to go through all this in order to get the medications I need, as these are high tech prescriptions so not given out willy nilly. ... wishing u the very best of luck and I'm sorry again for ur loss x

[Char2383 in reply to letro112]

Goodness you’ve been through so much.. it always baffles me that women have to go through so much to get answers and diagnosis…! You’d think that these things would be screened as soon as the decision was made to go through IVF… I can’t help but feel that the whole process needs to evolve so much for the well being of women (and men) going through this. Wishing you all the very best of luck for your next cycle, keep up the amazing work you’ve done Xx

[Sparklylife]

I am so sorry for your loss Char2383 🧡 I am glad others are able to give some advice what to ask for when you see the consultant.

Wishing you all the best for future 🧡

[Char2383 in reply to Sparklylife]

Thank you so much that’s really kind of you ❤️ wishing you all the best too x x

[Fertilityjourney]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It is devastating.

You won't feel like it now (and might want to punch me if you could!) But in time hopefully you will see that getting pregnant is a huge hurdle that you have just overcome - so please don't give up hope. Xx

After my second mc I got immune testing and will be starting more medications before my next IVF as my NK cells and antithyroid antibodies seem to be affecting me. So it may be something to ask your doc about. Big hugs. Xx

[Char2383 in reply to Fertilityjourney]

Haha I definitely don’t want to punch you! Really appreciate your words and we can definitely see the positives that we achieved implantation this time round. I’d never seen a positive pregnancy test so it is progress.

That’s really helpful you sharing about your immune testing, it’s definitely something we will discuss at our follow up.

Wishing you all the best x x

[Ranchu90]

Oh I am so sorry 😔 don't forget what I mentioned on my last comment, you have a great chance to succeed on your next transfer of you had a chemical 🤗 stick to that idea and remain positive. I can tell you from my experience. Take care of yourself 😘

[Char2383 in reply to Ranchu90]

Thank you Ranchu, I’m overwhelmed by all the lovely and thoughtful replies on here. It has helped so much, take care x x