I thought I should post a little update after some messages asking. We made it so far to a private scan today at 10w1d (after the 6w4d scan I couldn’t wait til 12!) and all is beautiful and we have lots of videos and pics of our little wiggly one! We have the 12w nhs one next obviously then also a voucher from our surrogate for a 14w gender scan 😁. Plus we are consultant led so from 16w we get a peek every 4 weeks! Today’s scan said heart rate and all development looks just right, so I’m excited to get to 12 weeks. The fear never goes but I feel slightly better after today!
I notice that it seems confusing when I refer to “we” to anyone that hasn’t followed our journey as this is a surrogacy pregnancy - but I’m embracing that - it’s ours as a team and our little embryo (gestational surrogacy with our embryo rather than traditional surrogacy). Our surrogate is our hero and amazing new friend.
Happy new year to everyone - may it bring us all better things, whatever that may be, and hoping for everyone’s miracle 💝