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I thought I should post a little update after some messages asking. We made it so far to a private scan today at 10w1d (after the 6w4d scan I couldn’t wait til 12!) and all is beautiful and we have lots of videos and pics of our little wiggly one! We have the 12w nhs one next obviously then also a voucher from our surrogate for a 14w gender scan 😁. Plus we are consultant led so from 16w we get a peek every 4 weeks! Today’s scan said heart rate and all development looks just right, so I’m excited to get to 12 weeks. The fear never goes but I feel slightly better after today!

I notice that it seems confusing when I refer to “we” to anyone that hasn’t followed our journey as this is a surrogacy pregnancy - but I’m embracing that - it’s ours as a team and our little embryo (gestational surrogacy with our embryo rather than traditional surrogacy). Our surrogate is our hero and amazing new friend.

Happy new year to everyone - may it bring us all better things, whatever that may be, and hoping for everyone’s miracle 💝

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Rainbowhope

Amazing news Orla. Congratulations and fingers crossed for 2021. Xxx

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precioce

So pleased to see this update. Happy New Year to you and this year you will get meet your child 😍 Sending positive vibes.xx

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Linda84Co

So happy for you, what a fabulous new year present. I also couldn’t wait and went for scan 9 weeks and 3 days a couple of days ago and you are right fear never goes but we are grateful for today. Xx

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Orla9298 in reply to Linda84Co

We truly are grateful. Lots of luck for the rest of your pregnancy 💝

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Linda84Co in reply to Orla9298

Same to you 😍

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AmyA19

Best. News. So happy for you all 🥰

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Rainbowbaby92

Aww amazing news!!! Congratulations! Xxx

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Millbanks

So lovely! Wonderful news my gorge xx

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Aga86

Amazing news! So happy for you!❤️

Congratulations Orla! Amazing news!!

Can I ask if this is also donor eggs? I am approaching this route and looking for hope/inspirarion! Thank you xx

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Orla9298 in reply to

Yes from my sister! Xx

in reply to Orla9298

That is absolutely beautiful.

Your story really shows that persistence and determination pays off - thank you for giving me hope! xxx

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Orla9298 in reply to

There is always a way! It has certainly been a fight but we feel like we might just be getting there!xx

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GiantPanda

Congratulations Orla! So pleased things are finally working out for you. Xxxx

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Cinderella5

Awww this is amazing new Orla!! I'm super delighted for you. The videos and scan pics privately are fabulous and great to keep. Lovely to hear that you are getting extra scans, you're very lucky....we are consultant lead and scans are just the same apart from growth scans after 20wks due tonight being twins. You're right though, the fear never goes but the scans do help, maybe not the lead ip but afterwards. Hope all continues to go well, would be lovely to hear your updates so keep us posted!xx

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MiniS5 in reply to Cinderella5

Can I ask what consultant lead means?! Or am I being stupid xx

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Cinderella5 in reply to MiniS5

Consultant lead just means that you are being looked after by a Dr and not a midwife due to being slightly higher risk so any decisions of care are run by the consultant etc.xx

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MiniS5 in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks so much cinderella

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Cinderella5 in reply to MiniS5

Welcome.xx

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CarolineDx

What a wonderful post to read! Many congratulations to you and your fantastic team!! ❤️ Wishing you all the best!! X

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Wonderful news!! So pleased it seems this may just be your time lovely, you so deserve it. Congratulations and happy new year 😘💗

This made me tear up of happiness Orla. So so happy to read. I wish you a beautiful 2021 mommy x x x

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Florencehill

Wow what a great story! I only found you as I was curious as to whether any members were local to me and you are. ☺️. Sending good vibes and Happy New Year!

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Orla9298 in reply to Florencehill

Aw really? Where are you based? I just had a look at your posts and I’m sorry to hear about your struggles and obviously now border closures. It would be fantastic if you are able to move them closer xx

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Florencehill in reply to Orla9298

Hi Orla9298 I only just saw this. Im in Liverpool x How are you doing?

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Sammy246

Congratulations, so happy to hear everything is going well xx

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Murielsmom

I love this forum to be able to read so many amazing and inspiring stories. Thank for sharing and I wish you and your surrogate the very best for a continued healthy pregnancy!

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Orla9298 in reply to Murielsmom

Thank you, we are over 15 weeks now and it’s a girl 💖. I’m just amazed and can’t quite believe it. Congratulations on your twin pregnancy and best wishes for a smooth pregnancy!xx

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Murielsmom in reply to Orla9298

Thank you!

I’m pleased for you.Best of luck in everything.

Surrogacy is my dream as well so i tap from your blessing that it will happen for me tooEventually.

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