No heartbeat at viability scan

[SuzyL123]

Hi everyone just wanting to come on here to have a little cry, we finally got our BFP and went for our viability scan today (7+5), unfortunately it shows it stopped developing last week and there was no heartbeat today!😪 I feel mad with myself for getting so excited!x

[DanABC20]

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you lovely xxx

[Nat246]

So sorry to hear this Suzy. Don’t be mad at yourself, I think the only thing that gets you through infertility is that little bit of hope and there’s nothing wrong in hoping your pregnancy would progress. It’s so unfair it was bad news, be gentle on yourself xx

[Sas1101]

So sorry Suzy 💔 I had some bad news before Xmas, my inbox is open if you need to chat. Big hugs. Xx

[Ike_2019]

I’m so sorry SuzyL123 💔 please do not feel mad with yourself, we all have hope of bringing home our babies and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Please be kind to yourself as you grieve. Continue to reach out on this forum and any other support networks you feel you can. Lots of love to you 💕

[Melonay1987]

Aw suzy I'm so sorry to hear this. I know it probably won't help but please don't be mad for getting excited when you got the positive. Sending you lots of love xx

[DreamerA]

So sorry to hear this. Don’t be hard on yourself, take some time to process and make time for yourself it’s ok to feel sad. Lots of love x

[Zaazee]

So sorry SuzyL124 💔, sending you hugs. It’s okay to grieve over your loss but please look after yourself xx

[Cinderella5]

Im so sorry for your loss Suzy! Its so heartbreaking to have your happiness ripped away but don't be mad at yourself, we all have to have some belief that this can work or we wouldn't put ourselves through it. Thinking of you.xx

[Patches86]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love x

[butterfliez]

Hi Suzy very sorry to hear this such sad news. Sending you strength & our thoughts are with you .

don’t be mad it’s totally normal to be excited in each step of this for hope is all we have in this fertility journey xx

[FutureMommy]

So sorry for your loss Xoxo❤️. Such an emotional turture we go through everyday. Stay strong and the smiling day is near🤞

[Ivf2020A]

Oh hun im so sorry to hear this x dont beat yourself up for being excited it would have hurt either way x this journey robs us of so much as it is please be kind to yourself and rest your heart and mind - sending love x

[SuzyL123]

Thank you so much for all your thoughts and kind words today girls, it’s so amazing to be able to share the heartbreak and frustrations with you all as you go through your own journeys!🤗I’m taking a few days to cry it all out while we wait for the shitty removal process and then start looking forward to getting started again!x

[butterfliez in reply to SuzyL123]

🌟Where I have gone I am not so small

My souls as wide as the world is tall

I have gone to answer the call , the call of the one who takes care of us all

Wherever you look you will find me there

In the heart of a rose , in the heart of a prayer

On butterflies wings on wings of my own

To you I am gone but I’m never alone

I am home 🌟

I saw this poem today & wanted to share this to give you comfort & to anyone suffering loss xx

[Italy300618 in reply to SuzyL123]

I am so sorry lovely to be reading this. Take sometime for you, unfortunately I had this a few months ago, and as horrendous as it is I promise you will be ok and it will get better. Big hugs xxx

[SuzyL123 in reply to Italy300618]

How did your scan go?x

[Italy300618 in reply to SuzyL123]

Thank you so much for asking. It went well thank you, that was a private one I had booked my viability scan with my clinic is Monday. Sending love xx

[SuzyL123 in reply to Italy300618]

I’m really pleased it went well for you.x

[Sparklylife]

Oh Suzy, I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and sending a virtual hug!

[Cassie_56]

So sorry Suzy for your loss, be kind to yourself and take the time you need. Lots of love x

[leigh1985]

I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 I've been there myself and I know how heartbreaking it is when they tell you there's no heartbeat😥 but please know that you have done nothing wrong and as the others have said if we didn't have a little bit of hope and positive thinking there would be no point putting ourselves through all this. Take some time and Look after yourself 🙏💕

[Fertilityjourney]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself. Xx

[RhinoCat]

I know this pain . The sting eases from what it is right now. My best advice is to allow yourself to cry and process . This is so so hard . Sending love and hugs 😢😘🙏🏻💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[Linda84Co]

I’m so sorry😔 I know how it feels, it’s really unfair... look after yourself xx

[Daughterofaking]

May you be comforted by God. So sorry to Jere this. x

[Hidden]

Hey lovely. Im so sorry you hd this outcome. My heart breaks for you. Please Dont fee mad at yourself. I hd a missed mc and embryo also stopped around similar time so perhaps it was not ment to be. Hope next year brings much more joy to all of us x x x

[Maisie234]

I am so so sorry to read this. Take care of yourself and don't be hard on yourself. Sending a virtual hug. Xx

[Hidden]

I am so sorry this happened to you. Will be praying for you.🤍🤍🤍

[Sappheiros]

Sorry for your loss. You’re not alone, I had exactly the same happen yesterday (7+2). It doesn’t change the sadness or frustration felt but reading about the facts and scientific reasons for a pregnancy not continuing has helped me feel a little calmer and more in control. Sending strength.

[Sammy246]

I'm so sorry to read this. Don't be mad, it's only natural to get excited after finding put your pregnant. I hope you have a good support system to help with your grief. Sending you love and virtual hugs xx

[Waitingforbaby]

So sorry to read this - be gentle with yourself xxxx

[Keepingfaith85]

I'm so sorry. Do be extra kind to yourself like you would if a friend was in the same situation. It's okay to be mad but not with yourself 😘 You have gone above and beyond and it's just not fair xxxx

[Honeynut37]

So sorry, don't be mad at yourself, you had every right and reason to be excited. Just as you now have every right to be heartbroken. This is terrible, cry your eyes out. I wish you better days ahead x

[TexasRose210]

Sorry for your loss 💔