So my viability is booked in for Wednesday 29th. To say I’m nervous is an understatement, this morning I’ve been so emotional and worried, stressing that everything will be okay.
After 2.5 years of IVF we’ve never made it this far, closest we’ve gotten was a pregnancy in unknown location. While my FS rang yesterday and did her best to reassure me I cannot shake the fear and panic that something will be wrong or there will be nothing there.
It’s going to be a long week!
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I had the same fears lovely especially as we had been in the position of nothing being on scan before too (even if we were expecting it). I was honestly so terrified and although you know its understandable nothing can help you shake it, its just the worst feeling. Deep breaths lovely and just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Take care and I hope it all goes well.xxx
Hey hun I am in the same boat... waiting for my scan next weds too! I've tired to stay strong and keep busy but it's scary as we want it to all be positive so badly....good luck and PM me if you want to talk more x
Oh lovely, it’s such a worrying time & I have no magic solution. My only advice is find some ways to control the anxiety. My anxiety went off the scale when I got my BFP. It was crippling. The hormones won’t be helping either. Take one day at a time, try some mindfulness, yoga, relaxing showers, do nice things to pamper yourself, face mask etc. Be kind to yourself & accept your thoughts for what they are, acknowledge them & then imagine a positive outcome. I liked using Zita West’s meditations which I downloaded from iTunes. Best of luck Xx
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