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Absolute nervous wreck pre viability scan!

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So my viability is booked in for Wednesday 29th. To say I’m nervous is an understatement, this morning I’ve been so emotional and worried, stressing that everything will be okay.

After 2.5 years of IVF we’ve never made it this far, closest we’ve gotten was a pregnancy in unknown location. While my FS rang yesterday and did her best to reassure me I cannot shake the fear and panic that something will be wrong or there will be nothing there.

It’s going to be a long week!

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RhinoCat

Just do one day at a time and enjoy each one. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone🙃

Love and hugs 😘🎄🎄🎄🎄

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Ajplus1 in reply to RhinoCat

Thank you. I’m trying my best ♥️

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Tugsgirl

Oh hey 👋🏻 You’re pregnant! Yay! Totally understand your nerves and anxiety. Hoping all is well. Sending much luck and positivity xx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you hun. Hope you and your family are well. Merry Christmas xx

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Cinderella5

I had the same fears lovely especially as we had been in the position of nothing being on scan before too (even if we were expecting it). I was honestly so terrified and although you know its understandable nothing can help you shake it, its just the worst feeling. Deep breaths lovely and just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Take care and I hope it all goes well.xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you lovely, one day at a time. Wishing you a merry Christmas with your two bubs. I hope they’re behaving in there xx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Ajplus1

Thank you! Hope you have a lovely Christmas too.xx

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Knittingababy

Hey hun I am in the same boat... waiting for my scan next weds too! I've tired to stay strong and keep busy but it's scary as we want it to all be positive so badly....good luck and PM me if you want to talk more x

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Ajplus1 in reply to Knittingababy

It is scary, the thought of what if. I’m trying to stay as positive as I can, but it gets hard. Hope you have a lovely Christmas xx

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Knittingababy

Merry Christmas lovely!

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Daughterofaking

It shall end in praise. Fear not. Congratulations

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Ajplus1 in reply to Daughterofaking

Thank you; I hope so xx

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jengi

Oh lovely, it’s such a worrying time & I have no magic solution. My only advice is find some ways to control the anxiety. My anxiety went off the scale when I got my BFP. It was crippling. The hormones won’t be helping either. Take one day at a time, try some mindfulness, yoga, relaxing showers, do nice things to pamper yourself, face mask etc. Be kind to yourself & accept your thoughts for what they are, acknowledge them & then imagine a positive outcome. I liked using Zita West’s meditations which I downloaded from iTunes. Best of luck Xx

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