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So I had my transfer last Monday, so only 6dp5dt and I did a really silly thing, I’ve started testing 😩😩it come back with such a faint positive today, but I’ve got such crazy all over the place cramps so could this be chemical? It feels like my AF is on its way and now I feel like I’ve made such a bad decision testing 😩first round we got through that was fresh and landed in chemical so now I just don’t know how to think... should have learnt from the first round not to test early but here we are 😩 *updated photo- 7DP5DT

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Italy300618

I knew youd cave 😆 lol! BUT this is an amazing start lovely, yes faint but it's there!! I think the cramps you are getting sounds positive and a good thing. When I got my BFP last time I had AF type pains from 6dpt so I think these feelings are pretty normal. Keeping everything crossed that line gets darker!! 🙏🙏🤞 rooting for you xx

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Khess124 in reply toItaly300618

I can’t believe I caved so early 😂😂 I’m hoping it gets darker but I’m still worrying so much now because of the chemical last time, how you feeling hunny? Xx

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Italy300618 in reply toKhess124

I know it's such a big worry. Try doing some mindful IVF before your sleeps before testing in the mornings, to bring your anxiety down. I've been crampy on and off too, back aches too, so hard not knowing. I'm on quite a bit of progesterone so keep thinking its probably that 😫 xx

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Khess124 in reply toItaly300618

I’m on 400 of progesterone so all I keep thinking is if I wasn’t taking that would i actually feel like this? I need to actually open that mindful app 😂 it’s to much unknown for my liking I can’t cope 😂 fingers crossed for you hunny 🤞🏻❤️

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Italy300618 in reply toKhess124

It's a minefield 🤯 thank you lovely, keep us all posted 😘 xx

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Khess124 in reply toItaly300618

Will do! And you when you do test! I’ll be waiting for your announcement ❤️

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Italy300618 in reply toKhess124

its looking great lovely !! xx

Aww Thats a very good line for 6 days especially on these type of tests so keep positive! Hope all develops well for you lovely. Crossing everything for you and whispering congrats 🤞💐🤞

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I’m so scared I tested again today and it’s darker but I still can’t seem to get chemical out of my head! I’ve still got cramps so it’s just worrying me 😩 but thank you! Xx

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Alice4090

I had faint positive 5dp5dt, now im 6 weeks pregnant

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Khess124 in reply toAlice4090

Oh my! Congratulations 🎉❤️

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PenguinBlue

Aww Khess!! Yayyy - whispering congrats and pray those lines get darker xxx

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Khess124 in reply toPenguinBlue

It’s darker today but I’m still so worried about it being chemical 😩 xxx

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PenguinBlue in reply toKhess124

I think that anxiety will always be there especially as you’ve suffered one before but the new test is looking good, don’t forget it’s still early days so keep monitoring tests in the meantime and if you can book some blood tests to check your beta so that can help calm your heart xxxx

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Khess124 in reply toPenguinBlue

I think I’ve managed to change the picture to today’s test 🙈 xxx

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PenguinBlue in reply toKhess124

It’s looking good hun, so pleased for you xxx

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Khess124 in reply toPenguinBlue

Thank you hun, fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻😩

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JoP32

That’s a good line For 6dpt lovely! Have you tested again today? It might be darker? I will keep everything crossed it keeps getting darker & darker hun!

Cautious congratulations coming your way..... xxxxx

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Khess124 in reply toJoP32

I did another this morning, my obsession with tests is unreal 😂😂 it is darker today! But I’m just so scared it could be chemical again 😩thank you !xxx

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Khess124 in reply toJoP32

I think I’ve managed to change the picture to today’s test! Xxx

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JoP32 in reply toKhess124

That’s so much darker!! 🎉💐Eeek, it’s looking good!

I totally understand the scared feelings! Unfortunately I think they’re par for the course to a certain extent when we’ve had such horrible disappointments in the past.

But..... today is a good day! It’s definitely darker and things are looking positive!

ALL the things remain firmly crossed for you lovely! Xxxx

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Khess124 in reply toJoP32

Thank you lovely ❤️

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Cinderella5

Fingers crossed that It just gets darker.xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

It’s darker today, how do we shake this feeling of something could be wrong! I’m so worried because it’s way darker then yesterday just want to be happy 😩 xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply toKhess124

Its impossible after a chemical to relax unfortunately! Just breathe, take one day at a time....hopefully all will be well.xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

I think I’ve managed to change the picture to today’s test 🙈 I hope so 🤞🏻 xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply toKhess124

Looking good! If you can, try to hang off and test every 2nd day. That way you will see progression a bit easier.xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

I’ve promised the OH that I won’t do anymore tests until Thursday now 🙈 so hopefully all will be well aha xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply toKhess124

Ha ha ha my hubby used to get frustrated at me testing everyday so I moved to every 2nd day as a compromise.....he still thought I was off my head! Fingers and toes crossed for you.xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

It’s easy for them to say not to test but were the ones trying to grow it 😂 thank you hunny, how’s your pregnancy going? Xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply toKhess124

Yes and mine used to ask every day....."do you feel different". Arrgghhh!! Lol Im doing ok thank you, keeping well and have a bit of a podgy belly!xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

Atleast you have to happy healthy babies in that podgy belly! 😂 that ‘do you feel different’ annoys me so much.. I feel different because I’m taking so many tablets so idk how I feel 😂😂😂 xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply toKhess124

Exactly, I just used to say "maybe, I don't know"!xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

Oh it’s so hard 😂😂 xxx

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Sas1101

Oh wow such a good line for 7dp, congrats!

I know it's so hard after a chemical to relax but every pregnacy is different. I was a wreck in my tww and still am 🤪 but taking it day by day and keep reminding myself that this could be the one and every pregnacy is different.

Good luck 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Khess124 in reply toSas1101

Ahh it’s so hard isn’t it! And thank you hunny ❤️❤️

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Smcphie28

That’s what my test looked like 7dp5et and I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant confirmed by blood test !! So congratulations 😀😀❤️

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Khess124 in reply toSmcphie28

Ahh thank you hunny, and congratulations 🎉❤️

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