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Hi all,

I just wanted to post on this forum because I received amazing support from this community when I was going through multiple miscarriages from IVF. Through some of my lowest lows, there were members of this forum who talked me through with kind words of support.

I also know that I always got how from hearing positive stories from women my age (I'm nearly 42) or people who have been through multiple IVF rounds. ( I have done 4 egg collections, 5 transfers and 3 miscarriages)

Well I did a frozen transfer of my last 2 embryos. We were starting to come to realisation that this may not work for us and were going to turn to donor eggs. But luckily I got BFP and am currently 14 weeks pregnant. I have had harmony tests which confirm I am low possibility of chromosomal abnormalities. All scans have been amazing and it is so amazing to see baby wriggling away.

I am so glad I didn't give up hope as an older first time mum. If anyone has any questions feel free to ask.

Baby dust to all !

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Faith103

This is so lovely! Congratulations! So happy you finally got there.xxx

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shia123

Congratulations 😊

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ashalez

Congratulations ♥️ Lovely news I'm so sorry you have been through a lot but this is your time

Keep enjoy and look after your self ♥️♥️🥰🥰♥️

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Dorekhani

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉😘😘😘❤️

When we try our best our Creator never disappoint us....... May God protect you and your baby amin

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Rainbowhope

This us amazing news. Congratulations. X

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Core

Congratulations great news xx

Congrats!!! That gives me hope after having a miscarriage!!! Could I pm you and ask for some tips pls? Thanks!!!

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Violet180 in reply to

Of course. Ask away.

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Cinderella5

Awww amazing news Violet!💕💕 I'm so pleased for you both especially after all you have been through. Wishing you a happy & healthy pregnancy!!xxx

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Melspels

Wonderful news! wishing you all the best xx

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kitscat

What a beautiful message!! So so happy for you! Congratulations! Xxx

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HemBella

Thank you so much for sharing your good news. Positive success stories are always welcome here, there is hope 😊. I'm 41 and after 3 iuis with donor sperm, one failed IVF and currently getting ready for another EC, it's encouraging to hear your news. Enjoy your pregnancy xx

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Solly-44

Loving this news! Huge congratulations to you xx

Congratulations and here is to a long healthy and happy pregnancy 💐💐💐 thank you for your encouragement xx

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WeeJacs

Amazing news thanks for your update. We are in a very similar situation with 4 attempts, 2 MC’s and now 1 frostie 3BC waiting on us. Your post gives me hope that this can actually happen. Did your clinic do anything different? I have endometriosis so now going for immune testing before last transfer xx

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Violet180 in reply toWeeJacs

My last 2 transfers I had clexane and prontogest injections. Not sure if it changed anything as the first transfer on those was a blighted ovum.

I was put on the clexane to try even tho I have not been diagnosed with any clotting issue. My RE said there was no harm in it.

I dont seem to have a problem getting pregnant, just with miscarriages. Usually pretty early miscarriages at 6 weeks or so. But as we stopped PGS testing on the last 2 collections, I think it was all a matter of getting down to a chromosomally normal embryo. I tried 15 embryos before finding my golden embryo. And likely due to my age.

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WeeJacs in reply toViolet180

Thank you wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy gives me hope to keep going xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Violet. Just to say how pleased I am to hear your news and keeping everything crossed that your pregnancy continues as it should. Good luck! Diane

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Tacos44

This is wonderful news! I am 45 and 31 weeks pregnant from an FET.enjoy each week you tick off the calendar as baby gets stronger!💕

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XxjustmexX

Congratulations xx

Wow many congratulations - fantastic news xx

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ttcemmie

Congratulations! So happy for you. x

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Grace2Grace

Congratulations Violet.. Thanks be to God

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butterfliez

Hi this is just great news ! Congratulations you deserve this , you have been through so much along the way, I can’t even imagine having the strength to get through all that

Wishing you all the best with the rest of the pregnancy take care xx

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Tiddly1984

Congratulations. Happy and wonderful news 💐

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Violet180

A final update....I had my beautiful healthy daughter on 19th of February 2021!So happy. I ended with a caesarean after an induction at 37 weeks due to my age and IVF. I attempted natural delivery but baby was a little distressed so they recommended c section after pushing for awhile.

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Cinderella5 in reply toViolet180

Absolutely delighted for you Violet!! She's absolutely beautiful!💖 Well done Mama!!🤗xxx

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Lots8788 in reply toViolet180

Gorgeous! Many congrats to you xx

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