Relationships

[Bluelady-sing]

I need help

[Weareback2]

I think you need to give a bit more info hun. Feel free to message me if you want to chat privately x

[cmbxm]

Do you have anything specific you want help with regarding relationships? This is a bit vague and we’d need a little more info to go on xx

[Bluelady-sing in reply to cmbxm]

Did your fertility problems affect relationships

[cmbxm in reply to Bluelady-sing]

They have in the past before they even evolved into a relationship, I’ve always been straight up about the fact it’s unlikely I’ll ever have kids naturally and if we do it’ll be a struggle, most guys ran at the first mention of fertility problems and the fact sex can be painful for me, but then I met my current partner and he’s been completely supportive, he understands how endometriosis effects my body, causes me to bleed, cripples me every month and understood when we started trying it was unlikely to happen because my tubes aren’t in the best condition due to the endo and we was fully prepared to face starting IVF after a year, luckily I fell pregnant naturally which was a huge shock to me, my partner and my doctor as we never thought it would happen, but I’d never kept it a secret that I had issues, my body isn’t the same as an average girls, I think being open and honest especially at the beginning is better because if they run, they run, and you haven’t got too attached to start with and it’s not an established relationship rather than waiting and mentioning it 6 months down the line xx

[FertileMind in reply to Bluelady-sing]

Yes, the pressure of IVF can take its toll in so many ways... are you in a log term relationship?