Third Ivf transfer after m/c

[Ozzy2012]

Me

Hi, so I’m nearly 30 I’ve got one natural conceived daughter who is 4 and I’ve been through one fresh cycle from Ivf which ended In bfn, second frozen embryo which was my daughter who died at 17 weeks due to her chord, and I’ve just had my third transfer and this is our last embryo. I’m 10 days past today and feeling cramps I just feel so down and alone, I know u should be happy with my daughter but I really wanted her to be able to grow up with a sibling.

[CLDxxx]

Hang in there lovely, cramps don’t always mean it’s over.

It’s understandable you wanting a sibling especially after your previous loss.

When’s your test day? Xx

[Ozzy2012 in reply to CLDxxx]

Thank you it’s on the 1st nov, just been driving myself crazy not having anyone to talk to as DH away for work. X

[CLDxxx in reply to Ozzy2012]

Not too much longer to go now. Are you going to try and hold out?

Sorry you’ve not had anyone to talk to, have you not told anyone you’re going through this?

This group is fab so always come here, you’re not alone X

[Ozzy2012 in reply to CLDxxx]

Nobody as didn’t want to after losing our wee one at 17 weeks I couldn’t face telling them had it not worked. No cramping today but just feeling scared! So tired and weepy’

[CLDxxx in reply to Ozzy2012]

Hey,

It’s understandable not sharing this with people, I haven’t told many people half of my story and it’s difficult at times as sometimes you really need support.

How are you doing today? X

[J3nna]

Hang u there! I know how u feel, we conceived our son naturally with a little help from follicle tracking and clomid and now after 2 1/2 years of trying for a second we are now just about to start our journey into self funded IVF in the hope of a sibling 🙏