Well, after getting our first ever BFP from IVF, it’s been confirmed today that it’s ended at 6 weeks. I’m heartbroken as I really felt like it was going to happen for us this time but unfortunately it wasn’t meant to be. I’m starting to feel like it’s never going to happen for me...
But we will, in time, pick ourselves up and try again...
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I’m totally useless with peoples loses and I genuinely cry a little tear for us all .I never know what to say but I hope and pray you find the strength going forward and your day is in waiting it’s not over by no means it unfortunately just wasn’t ment to be this time round .Stay strong darling xxx
I'm so sorry. It's heartbreaking when you feel it's going to work and it's so unfairly snatched away. Take time to grieve and I'm wishing you lots of luck for when you decide to move forward xx
Oh SJ I'm so sorry it is so hard, do take time to grieve, it's unbelievably tough to go through this x
Im really sorry to hear that. Its often hard to pick up and keep going when it feels like its never going right, but things will! Take care and be kind to yourself xx
I am so sorry to hear your news, the worst thing in the world. I am so sorry you’re going through your heart break and must be horrendous for you to go through IVF and this happen. Wishing you all the luck in the world. Please take time for yourself and Be so kind to yourself and your OH. Always here xxx
I’m so sorry, you really have been through so much to get to this point. Be kind to each other and remember we are all here if you need us. I’m sure you will likely have had every test under the sun but if and when you are ready to, it’s worth looking at natural killer cells testing for you and sperm dna fragmentation for your partner xxx
So sorry for your loss. It’s heartbreaking. You’re in my thoughts xx
I'm so sorry to read that. It's difficult to revover and keep going when it feels like it's never going to work, but keep your HOPE and someday will be your turn. Time will help! Take care of yourself and good luck! Xx
Im so sorry to hear this, its so dam cruel. After having been through this twice myself recently I completely sympathise. Its a hard pill to swallow but we found that the fact we actually got pregnant a little ray of light that perhaps we can do this. Be kind to yourselves, sending big hugs.xx
So so sorry 😢 I’ll never forget hearing those dreaded words at the scan, absolutely heartbreaking. Take care of yourselves. Sending you lots of love and the strength to keep going on your journey 💕💕 xx
I am in a very similar situation. We had a bfp after our second round of IVF, had a heartbeat at 7 weeks 1 day and then a week later when I went to my regular obgyn they said no heartbeat 😢. Now we will do a d&c to see if it was an issue with the baby or myself. Sending you love and hugs. I cried for 3 days straight but am trying to feel more like myself.
Really sorry to hear this. I’ve just been through something very similar. After many tears, I am taking it one day at a time, rebuilding my strength and will keep going. We will get there. It just wasn’t quite our time...just yet. Big hug to you at this difficult time x
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