Viability scan

I have my viability scan on Friday and I've been so relaxed since I got the BFP, however I'm starting to worry. I'm just praying that everything is OK, I read you can still get BFP even if baby is no longer developing, it's scared me to death, I haven't had any spotting or bleeding so that's got to be a good sign surely. Friday canny come quick enough, trying to stay positive but I still don't believe it has actually worked for us and don't think I will until I see it so hoping all is well. Anyone else in this situation?

[Hopefulholly]

Hi bella1987

I know exactly what you mean my scan isn’t till Tuesday and I just can’t believe that I am carrying my little embie I don’t think it will feel real until we get to see them on the screen and know that everything is good ! I think your imagination runs wild especially when you read some of the sad stories.

Fingers crossed 🤞 everything’s perfect and then maybe we can happy and worry less about the pregnancy ! xXx

[Hidden in reply to Hopefulholly]

Thankyou it's just nice to know you are not alone in these feelings x

[Emma04]

I know how you feel, my scan is a week today and I’m already driving myself insane with what ifs. Friday will be here soon enough now and hopefully everything will be perfectly fine. Hang in there almost there now. Xxx

[Kitty230515]

I know how you feel. I’ve got my scan on Monday. It’s so hard not to over think things.

Fingers crossed all our scans go well, and we can enjoy our pregnancies xx

[Kiedy84]

I totally understand hun, my scan is not until 13th June seems like forever!

My strategy is to focus on a baby and think positive thoughts and not to worry until there is something to worry about. We all need to enjoy every single day of our pregnancies. xx

[Kitty230515 in reply to Kiedy84]

Love that outlook. :-)! Xx

[Hidden]

Yes thankyou for the advise I will try to remain positive.

[Kitcat12]

Aw how exciting, all the best of luck x

[MissSaoPaulo]

It's good that you've been relaxed. Worrying won't change anything at this point. Hope it's good news at your scan - you've no reason to think it won't be, but once you start worrying it's hard to stop, I know xxx

[Sajk1]

Hi my scan is tomorrow and I'm so scared

[Hidden in reply to Sajk1]

Good luck x

[Sajk1 in reply to Hidden]

Hi quick update had the scan not good news they couldn't see a sac test is still positive so dont know what happend but good luck to all you ladies

[Lowamh in reply to Sajk1]

So sorry to hear this SajK xxx

[Sajk1 in reply to Lowamh]

Iv still got sore boobs and getting really bad heartburn iv had no pain or bleeding so I guess you just dont know what's happening inside this was our first cycle and everything went really smooth had no problem I suppose it's just luck iv still got a frozen egg so second time lucky I hope

[hannahding]

Hey, I can understand how you might be feeling. Things like these make you very anxious. However, stay strong and positive. I am sure things will get better. Just make sure to take care of yourself. Stress is not good for you. I am sure the scan will show great results. Good luck!

[Apples2665]

I was exactly the same. Even cried on the way to the scan and refused to go at one point as I thought it would all be over. We have waited so long to get to this point but it works out more often than not. Try to be positive. I’ll keep everything crossed for you and hope you get to see your little bean. Xx

[EmGLA]

I haven’t been in your position but I think I would be exactly the same. I think because of all of our infertility issues we don’t trust to hope (well I know I do). Best of luck for Fridat! Wishing you all the positive vibes!! I hope you are ok! Xxx

[Core]

Just wanted to say good luck for Friday will be thinking of you xx

[Babynorth]

Hi, I have been feeling exactly the same. I have another two weeks to wait (again-torture!) until my viability scan. I thought I would have some sort of blood test beforehand? I was so excited to get my bfp and now it's like torture again that everything will be ok. I've gone through a private clinic, but wondering if gp could do anything in the meantime to ease my mind?

[Hidden]

I don't think gp can do anything hun, my clinic told me they wouldn't scan me earlier as you wouldn't be able to see anything fingers crossed all is well for all of us I'm sure it will be its just the overthinking game it's a nightmare.

[Bexta6060]

Im exactly the same, im driving myself just a little mad with thoughts of a missed miscarriage. My early early scan (6 weeks) is next Tue, it really cant come soon enough xxx

[Lowamh]

Mine is on Tuesday. You’ve done well not to worry until now! Good luck for Friday xx

[Hidden]

Hi guys, thankyou for all the support, just thought I would give a quick update for anyone feeling the same as me to spread some positivity, everything was fine our little bean was measuring perfectly with a strong heartbeat, so that's me done at my clinic have an appointment with the midwife on Tuesday, it finally all feels real and like I can relax a little and enjoy my pregnancy, good luck to all of you waiting for your scan x

[Kitcat12 in reply to Hidden]

Fantastic news! I'm thrilled for you x

[HollieW]

Everyone feels like this and the worrying never stops - I'm 28 weeks pregnant and still panic every day that something will go wrong but you learn to cope with it and as you reach each milestone it does get easier. Wishing you all the best at your next scan xx