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I have 1 week left of my 2ww and I’m going crazy!! I’m scared to move, to sneeze, to cough, to do anything at all 🙈 does anyone else feel this way or have they just carried on as normal?

My OH has been doing everything for me and won’t let me lift a finger ❤️ he’s been so great through it all.

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Tugsgirl

I did feel like that first time but I’ve had 4 transfers now and I’ve learned to relax a little. Coughing, sneezing, laughing is fine! In fact gentle exercise is actively encouraged to keep the blood flow healthy. Use your common sense and don’t be so hard on yourself 😊 You won’t have done anything wrong no matter what the outcome. Good luck for your otd xx

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beauty1984 in reply toTugsgirl

It’s hard to think that sometimes but if it will be it will be. Thank you for your support. I will defo be more positive xx

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emu2016

Two week wait is a beast! Everything in moderation... though I Clearing told my husband that he was out of the room when the doctor said I mustn’t hoover... 😜😜😜 x

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beauty1984 in reply toemu2016

😂 my OH has been doing everything for me bless him. He’ll soon get fed up of it xx

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NMP1026

Awe bless you hun. The 2ww is a nightmare! I had my transfer on Thursday. It's a FET for me and my 3rd transfer. I'm actually being more active this time around and trying to carry on "like normal". I think the not doing anything drove me to distraction. You have done your best hun. Good luck to you xx

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beauty1984 in reply toNMP1026

Good luck to you too 😊 thank you x

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Buisquits

Hi lovely

It’s a difficult time and it’s getting worse the closer it gets!

Try to get on with your life but leave lifting and harder jobs for your partner! Go for a walk, keep yourself happy and occupied. These 2 weeks wait it’s just the beginning, then it’s the wait for 12 weeks to see if everything is fine, then the wait for the labour to come and then awaiting for every little thing - from first step to coming back home after night out! 🤣🤣🤣

Good luck petal xxx

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beauty1984 in reply toBuisquits

🙈 I will defo try to relax more and not read into every little thing. Thank you x

I'm on day 5 of my 2ww I been pretty positive up til now... but noticing every twitch. Pain etc. It is horrible trying to keep busy but all you can think about is what's happening.. lol. Wishing you lots of luck. 😘 xx

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I know what you mean, every little thing you read in to. Good luck x

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Sarah_S

I've also got a week left - it's so hard! Have you had any symptoms? I've had a few twinges and some short spells of period like ache, and slightly sore boobs. Trying to keep busy and not think about it. My husband has been telling me off for sneezing! All my fingers crossed for you xx

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beauty1984 in reply toSarah_S

I feel bloated and have sore boobs but that’s about it. I’m keeping all my fingers and toes crossed. I hope this last weeks speeds by for the both of us and we get the outcome we want 🤞🏻 good luck x

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Lucy1602

Hi, I have been hoping to find someone else in the 2ww.. I am 7dp5dt and I have found the first week not too bad but yesterday I started fretting about the outcome and how to cope with a negative. I suppose because it’s my 4thcycle with 1 BFP I’m a bit more apprehensive. It’s so hard not to read into the twinges and sore boobs but hopefully we’ll get the result we hope & pray for. Good luck

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Lucy1602

Can I ask when your test day is? Our clinic has said Sunday which is a full 2 weeks but previously with blastocyst I’ve tested 12 days after transfer - hence why It’s very difficult not to test early!

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beauty1984 in reply toLucy1602

My test day is Saturday so that’ll be 12 days for me. My first round was also 12 days. It’s so hard not caving and doing the test early but I will hold out and keep everything crossed. Good luck xx

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Kathy_t

I think your mind can run away with you. After my ET I went shopping! The only change I made was not going to the gym. What's meant to be will be and going about your daily life won't change that. I'm sure it'll all be fine!! Xx

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