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Hi all got my BFP this morning ❤️ It's bittersweet as my nan died yesterday and she had helped pay for some of our treatment. So it's a happy sad day. Good luck to everyone else on their 2ww try not to read into symptoms I haven't had any this last week. Xxx

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Smang

I’m so sorry to hear about your nan. But I am incredibly happy to hear you finally got your BFP. Maybe you can see this BFP as a light of her that’s still shining through xx

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Penders in reply toSmang

Thank you Smang. How are you doing? Xx

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Violet5451

Sorry to hear about your nan lovely girl. I truly believe she is looking down and smiling and very happy for you and your bfp. Congratulations on your bfp and so sorry to hear about your nan xxxx

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Penders in reply toViolet5451

Thank you. Congratulations on your BFP too xx

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Leo2017

So sorry to hear about your nan!! ☹️ But super delighted for you on your bfp- great news!! 😊 wishing you the very best!! xx

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Penders in reply toLeo2017

Thank you. I hope the rest of your 2ww goes fast and you get your BFP xx

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Leo2017 in reply toPenders

Thank you!! I turn 40 on Friday, not ideal timing right in middle of 2ww but hopefully it’ll distract/keep me busy for a few days!! 🤞🏻 Hope you’re looking after yourself!! xx

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Littledee88

So sorry to hear about ur nan. And congrats on ur bfp ur nan will be beside u all the way always in ur heart ❣ xx

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Penders in reply toLittledee88

Thank you xx

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kumkums

Aww Penders, It is indeed bitter sweet. I am sure granny will be glad that her help has brought you this far, so sorry for the loss. Congratulations on the bfp. Wishing and praying you have a great pregnancy and a beautiful and healthy baby at the end. Enjoy today.

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Penders in reply tokumkums

Thank you Kumkums. How are you doing? Xx

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GiantPanda

Congratulations on your bfp, but so sorry about your nan. I can empathise on some level as my nan died the day before my wedding. You will still feel her with you along the way, so take comfort in that. You'll be telling your little one all about her soon enough! Xx

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Penders in reply toGiantPanda

Thank you. Oh that must have been hard the day before your wedding. Xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwwww my lovely I'm sooooo sorry about your nan, big hugs hun bless you such a, sad time she's with you lovely in spirit you'll know that 😔 💗

Congratulations on your bfp lovely praying everything goes well for a happy healthy pregnancy. 💗

You know where I am if you need to chat. Big hugs lovely lady

💗💗🤗😘😘

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Penders in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you ❤️😘

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TTCs

Ah im so sorry to hear about ur nan but also massive congratulations on ur BFP! It's lovely to know ur nan had a part in it with helping to pay for some of the treatment. Take care of yourself during this difficult time 💞 xx

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Penders in reply toTTCs

Thank you xx

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oharal

Congratulations on your BFP - that is defo your Nan shining down on you <3 xx

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Penders in reply tooharal

Thank you x

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E_05

So sorry to hear about your Nan but congratulations on your BFP, I’m sure she’ll be watching over you very happy that she could help this happen xx

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Penders in reply toE_05

Thank you xx

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Tugsgirl

Congratulations on your bfp! But I’m so sorry to hear about your Nan. It sounds like she’s left you something wonderful behind though xx

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Penders in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you Vicky xx

So sorry to hear about your nan ☹.

Congratulations on your BFP I'm sure your nan will be looking down on you and smiling.

Xx

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Thank you xx

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Poppy16

I am so sorry to hear about your nan. That is really sad and hard for you. Thinking about you and praying for you. Delighted to hear about your bfp. Many congrats! Your nan would be so pleased for you. She has left you a very special present! Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy. Take care.xo

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Penders in reply toPoppy16

Thank you xx

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Cinderella5

Awww Im so sorry to hear about you Nan, sad times! Sending you hugs. Pleased to hear that you got a BFP....perhaps a parting gift from your Nan....xxx

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Penders in reply toCinderella5

Thank you xx

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Lou7744

Am sorry to hear about your man. So glad that you got a positive 💕 xx

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Penders in reply toLou7744

Thank you xx

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Anna00

sorry about your nan,it’s lovely that she had a part on your treatment.

So happy for you! Congratulations xx

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Penders in reply toAnna00

Thank you Anna. How are you doing? Xx

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Anna00 in reply toPenders

I’m a bit better thanks lovely.my mood still not very ok 1min I’m fine 1min I’m upset! Also Period pain and bleeding so pretty tough time at the moment but I’ll be ok soon.

I’m very happy for you xx

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romaluna2015

I’m sorry to hear about your Nan. But happy for your happy news. Xx

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Penders in reply toromaluna2015

Thank you. Not long to go now until you meet your girls xx

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Snowy76

Sorry to hear about your nan x Big hugs to you, OH and best wishes for your new wee bean x

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Penders in reply toSnowy76

Thank you xx

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Dunla

I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother. This must be very difficult for you. Your granny would be so happy to hear your good news this morning, particularly as she was able to help you along the way to reach this point. She’ll be with you in spirit. Wishing you lots of luck for a healthy pregnancy. Take good care xx

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Penders in reply toDunla

Thank you. When is your test date? I hope you get your BFP xx

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Dunla in reply toPenders

Thank you, it’s tomorrow at the clinic. Really hoping this is our time. Hope you are doing ok x

Really sorry to hear your sad news. But congratulations on your bfp - how lovely that your nan contributed towards your treatment. I really hope everything goes well moving forwards Take care. Xx

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Thank you xx

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Tezzabell86

I’m so sorry for your loss but congratulations on your pregnancy xx

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Penders in reply toTezzabell86

Thank you xx

Aw what a bittersweet day. Depending on what you believe, maybe your nan still knows your happy news x

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Penders in reply toLizzielizzielizzie

Thank you xx

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Gem1982

Awww I’m so sorry to here about your nan.I’m sure she is looking down on you and your litte bean now growing inside you. Take care of yourself x she would be so pleased for you x

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Penders in reply toGem1982

Thank you xx

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Sunset81

Congrats and so sorry for your loss xxx

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Penders in reply toSunset81

Thank you xx

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lorraineb61

Congrats on your BFP!! Sorry about your nan though - I'm quite a strong believer that some things happen for a reason so I think your nan has gone to leave room for your little bubba xx

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Penders in reply tolorraineb61

Thank you xx

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Amanda86

Very sorry to hear about your nan 🙁 that’s very sad. Congratulations on your BFP though, your nan will be watching over you I’m sure 😘 xxx

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