so I went in for my first frozen embryo transfer today. I had 4 frosties, first didn't thaw, 2nd thawed 70% so they thawed a third which was 95% and quickly multiplying and turned out to be better than its class when frozen. Then they asked us to decide on 1 or 2 to transfer! Obviously we'd have the better quality one but the lesser one would be left to perish ☹ they recommend 1 due to its quality, my age and background fertility. We had to decide there and then and although its really upsetting we decided 1 was the sensible option. We also only now have 1 in storage which makes a future FET unpredictable. I knew this would be hard, but I didn't expect to have to make such hard decisions. Fingers crossed this one sticks, not sure I could go through all that again.