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After 4 miscarriages, 2 rounds of ivf and 3 years of infertility, all other tests have come back clear. Majority of the tests have been run through Tommy’s miscarriage clinic, so was really hoping they’d be able to give us some answers. I’m grateful that there’s ‘nothing’ but it doesn’t give me much confidence going forward that we won’t miscarry again.

Can anyone recommend a clinic in London or surrounding areas that does NK Killer cells testing? (Blood)

This is a last resort so hoping we can find someone that is recommended and if any of you have had a successful outcome following NK testing and protocol?

Thank you! 🙏🏻

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I'm afraid I have no piece of advice for you. I've never been in your shoes. Just dropped in to say you must be a super brave lady moving this path. And that I hope your doc investigated perfectly so that no complications in future. I also love the positiveness you're looking at things - that's awesome and probably the main key to success.

I've never been prego myself. I've always known I won't ever be able..Due to my bad luck I was born without womb.. I'd had several relationships which ended as soon as my partners got to know I'd never carry the baby for them..This was horrible, but purely their personal choice, so could I blame them?!! Infertility is the curse. Not everyone is willing to put his life on strugglings. The majority want their halves to be healthy and able of carrying babies for them..Not me..

Now I know for sure there's always light in the end of the tunnel. I met my Mr. Right years ago and the first thing I did, I told him about my ''peculiarity''. Thought he'd behave like others and soon leave me alone with my grief..I now feel much ashamed how much I was mistaken..It took him a couple of minutes to think and than he answered ''We'll have our baby from surrogacy'' I burst into tears and was on the moon with such a sweet phrase heard ever!! We undergone surrogacy abroad. Our embie was implanted in the summer 2013. Sweet Laria was born weighing 8lb 12 oz by planned Caesarean on March'17, 2014. I was at surrogate's side in the operating room.

I'm not sure of the purpose I'm writing all this for you. I know our cases are totally different. But probably my message is never give up! We all have our own personal stories. And we all need to find more strength for them at times. I truly hope my post has lifted your spirits up. I'm praying for your soon luck with infertility treatments. Keep updated xx

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Hopeandwishes in reply to JustKnewIt

Thank you so much for your reply. It’s amazing how everyone’s story is different but the end goal is always the same. Fantastic that you were able to take home you’re beautiful baby and have a happy ending to your journey, which sounds testing and couldn’t have been easy. Like you say, ultimately and one way or another we will get there, it just might not be the route that we initially thought. Thanks for taking the time to share your story, it really has helped :) xx

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