Struggling to know what to do for the best, any advise or help or prayers welcome......

Hi girls

I've been taking a break since falling pregnant naturally but only finding out 2 days before egg collection. Then miscarrying 😶

I've been in Ivf meds 4 times but only got to collect 2 times. Neither resulting in pregnancy.

I had 3 Periods before going again.

After miscarrying the hospital said they'd not do more Ivf knowing we'd got pregnant. But instead insemination.

Now 3 months later, they had a clinical session and have decided Ivf is better 😖

I've asked for a few months break with using a supplement called ovusitol which is supposed to help.

I just don't know where I get the physical and emotional strength to do it again 😯

I'm torn, on one hand I'm happy to have another attempt. I'm in Spain and the national health cover costs, but in the other..... It's just been so so hard.

I'm 40 this year, have been trying 5 years.

Did something change?

How did it work against all odds?

Do I just need a few months to relax, eat well and try?

Am I being a fool waiting?

What should i do?

Any words would be welcome, crystal balls also welcome😝

I wish you all the luck in the world girls, you are an amazing group of super heroes 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

[72cloud9]

I'm sorry u r having a hard time.my personal experience? I miscarried at 41 and then delayed treatment as thought I could get pregnant naturally.now I'm 45 having just had a failed IVF treatment.i have 1frozen embryo left.being told not to collect more eggs as the quality probably isn't there.

If u really want this baby, don't delay,use the help! As u still have a few years to achieve this.

I think there's an end point for all of us tho.i am coming to the point of starting to resent my life being on hold in anticipation and having to deal with the heartbreak.

U will know when Enuf is enuf but defo take the help now if it's there-u still have time.

Best of luck sweetie xxxx

[Missy_22]

Hi agree with 72cloud9,

Don't delay, my cousin delayed and now she is 43 and has had to stop due to poor quality eggs.

IVF is extremely hard but just go for it.

Good luck to you xxxx

[nicknick]

Have you considered combining yr treatment with pgs ngs?