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Morning ladies

For us it was a BFN.

Good luck to the rest of you x

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Aww sorry to hear that, look after yourself xxx

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vic77

Oh hun I am so so sorry.. bfns hurt so much.. give yourself time to recover then plan next steps xxxxx

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baby2016

Aw tamtam1, so sorry to read this. Heartbreaking to get a bfn. Be kind to yourself the next few weeks xx

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Se99

So sorry to read this x

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Blondyboo

Oh Hun I was hoping this was going to be your time try to keep strong I know you're feeling dreadful right now but we do find the strength from somewhere to keep going xx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to hear this 😞 x

To be honest ladies I kind of knew this wasn't our round so if anything I am not said. We had plan b in place and will.be going with our last remaining egg and our last treatment.

Will it be the 1 I really don't know but we can't say we never tried. Fingers crossed we are jumping right back in the band wagon and hopefully this one last try will be the miracle worker if not then so be it. There has to be a time where you reach that point of saying enough is enough.

This will be our 6th cycle all privately funded so financially we are at that point. Including emotional and physically.

I won't post when we have transfer but if we do make it to the end I be sure to post baby and all.

Wishing you all success at some point xxx

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ditsy999 in reply to

sorry it didnt work this time . . stay positive . big hugs x

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WeeMrsH in reply to

I am so glad you have a plan and also an 'end point' in mind- being positive and hopeful is important of course but I think having and end in sight for when you wan to say "stop, I want to get off this rollercoaster!" Is so important for your mental wellbeing and being able to get on with your life . Good luck for your next chapter xxx

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Becks72 in reply to

So sorry it's not worked. I can totally relate to the cost emotionally and physically as well as financially just waiting for a match to commence 5th treatment.

Big hugs

Becks

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SnottyCow in reply to

Our last cycle which would now be number 4 self funded ended in early pregnancy loss at 5 weeks. Worst yet because we had our BFP and for a few days everything was perfect.

We're now thinking about our 5th and possibly final attempt. You sound much braver than me about it though. I never thought I'd have to make a decision to stop but it's starting to look that way and I'm struggling to cope.

Good luck to us x

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pm27

I'm sorry you got a BFN and wish you all the best for your next attempt.

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that Hidden .xx

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Sprinkles86

Aw Tam sending you a massive hug you wonderful brave lady xxxx best wishes for your next round I will be thinking of you xxxx

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sanj76

Awww I'm so so sorry to read this Tam, wishing you lots of comfort.

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WeeMrsH

So sorry :( xx

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LHow81

Good luck for the next one. I'll be thinking of you and wishing for that baby pic xx

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Georgina78

So sorry to read this Tamtam, you really deserved for it to go the other way. Big hugs xx

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72cloud9

Gutted for u Hun.😥your last embie will b the special one!! Xxx

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emzlou25

Oooh tamram am so sorry babez i also got BFN last month 😦 lifes so unfair..take care of urself and make a plan for what nxt to keep u going xxx

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bfrida

sorry to hear about that. don't give dear.