The caretaker,martre problem

[Christaylor4076]

Hi all recently me and my wife split up and going through a divorce 21 years married.

Any way I've had a couple of dark moments which has ended me being put into residential care for the problem,

I've been talking to my support worker and after a lengthy discussion about things he suggested, the caretaker martre thing which really rang true in my mind everything he said was true and unfortunately I didn't know about this thing.

Maybe if I was informed when I started looking after the love of my life who has Eds type3 ,hypermobility syndrome ,fibryomalgy

That we wouldn't be going through this divorce, I am truly not blaming anybody for this situation just incase anybody is I truly am not but this caretaker martre thing is dangerous as in when things go wrong as in divorce or separation the person that has been doing there best for the love of there life or just even just somebody caring in general.when in my case split up and get divorced what do I do now nobody to look after nobody to care for most of all I'm not needed anymore so what might possibly happen I'm not going to say but I'm sure you can come to your own conclusion about the outcome, hopefully I'm still recoverable but some not so lucky.

I love my wife and am so so much in love with her I would look after her until the end of my days were both 42 so there's a lot of loving and caring left to give unfortunately it's not going to be me I love her so much and would go back right now but I would do things just a little bit different I would love her to know this but communication is not good at minute.

If anybody thinks that this is an issue in there marriage relationship please get help or else it will destroy everything that you have built together dreams you've got together everything that you hold dearest to your heart I absolutely adore and love my wife to infinity my world has ended please dont let it happen to yours xx

[Saassii]

You sound like a phenomenal person! What a beautiful heart and soul. May God bless you and meet all your needs. xxx