Hope! Feeling so well post rehab

[theoldboiler]

Not getting confident or overconfident - there lies disaster, but I feel so well after rehab, people are even commenting on how well I look- they have not said that for a very long time now. Hair is growing back, loads more energy and mostly positive moods. If you are drinking and can afford it, detox and rehab was wonderful for me. Sodding expensive though but as I was drinking two bottles of wine a day it will pay for itself soon! The therapies and sessions were enlightening and I have lots of new strategies and skills to use and more to explore. Trying AA for the first time next week- not so sure about that having seen "The Big Book" and hearing an AA member talking about it but we shall see.......

Wendy

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What a brilliant post to read, thank you for sharing. It is so great to read how well you feel after rehab.

Take care

Trust1

[joeburger]

You should be so proud of yourself, reading this has made me smile. Don't be disheartened if you don't get the AA thing it's not for everyone it certainly wasn't for me.

[theoldboiler in reply to joeburger]

Thanks Joe. I am not really the kind of person who responds well to diktats, American cliche (or God for that matter)😎so it may not be for me but trying to go with an open mind. Previous words used suggest my mind isn't very open but I will try not to be cynical

[Aotea2012]

That’s fantastic news. Really good to read. I’m so pleased it worked for you. I guess now it’s the maintenance...I agree with Joeburger, don’t get despondent if AA isn’t for you. It works for many people, I can see that from the posts on here. I’m not sure it would be for me and it may not be for you either, but find the thing that does and be comfortable. I haven’t had a drink in nearly 11 months now and don’t miss it. Amazingly. The key for me was my health coupled with fear. I feel great now. Really well. Clear skin, bright eyes and a zest for life that was missing as the odd glass of wine turned into a bottle...or even 2! You need to celebrate with a treat. Be nice to yourself and you’ll be amazed how many other things come right too.

[theoldboiler in reply to Aotea2012]

Thank you. I know there will be down days but feel determined to turn them round, not give up as I did before

[Aotea2012 in reply to theoldboiler]

There’s bound to be down days, when that happens remind yourself how well you look and feel. Give yourself treats. Celebrate how far you’ve come.

[DavyGravy]

Wendy

That is so lovely to read. A really positive experience that will help encourage others who might be considering rehab to making the right decision.

I really think the fact that you were so determined to embrace all the therapies and strategies had such a big impact. I believe, we only get out what we put in, the harder we try, the greater the reward and you are definitely getting your reward.

Well done

Dave

[theoldboiler in reply to DavyGravy]

I have Stage 3/4 Decompensated Cirrhosis so haven't felt like this for a long time

[SevereFattyLiver]

Bravo! I understand the struggle too well. Good for you for taking action and control.

[Zukosmile07]

Well done new boiler.... bloody good on ya! So you should feel better after spending the money and no more poisoning....😇. Proud of you and the way you sound I think "this is it". 😘

[Geordiemac]

Well don't and good luck on your recovery journey. I know what your concerns are regarding AA. I went once and it really wasn't for me, not to say that it hasn't helped many, many people though. I was amazingly fortunate and found a small support group that helped in the first six months of abstinence. After my transplant it was almost like e a reset button had been hit and I've not attended any groups since. . I don't think, crave or need alcohol in my life anymore as my eyes were truly opened being sober of the chaos and hurt it had caused. I'm 3 and a half years post transplant and 4 years sober. Cliche as it sounds life is so better without it. I am a kinder, less selfish and nicer individual know. All of our stories are different and yours will be the same no doubt. What I do know is that you have shown great courage in admitting your alcoholism and all you need to do is don s suit of armour and fight your way through the coming days, weeks, months and possibly years. I wish you my sincerest best wishes and continued abstinence. Good luck 🙂

[theoldboiler in reply to Geordiemac]

Thank you so much Geordiemac. Taking each day at a time at the moment and feeling good

[Truex]

Beautiful to hear! Keep it up... I didn't even try AA as al anon as tried years before and it got a big fat nope! Enjoy your health🤗

[Beauport]

Oh, wonderful news,! Feeling and looking great are the best incentives for carrying on. Good on you, girl.

[Tia2021]

Well done, you have done amazing, onwards and upwards now, this post will definitely help some who are undecided about rehab it certainly gives them hope, you should be so proud of yourself, xxx