Mum sadly passed away today.

[Toffegirl]

After being diagnosed last September she lost her battle. It’s one of the most horrendous things I have ever had to encounter. It’s wasn’t peaceful. After kidney problems, suffering from HE she then got pneumonia and was struggling to breath. My dad had a heart attack last week and the way out luck has been I said she would go Christmas Day. Me and dad was there with her. I think she hung on to see my Dad today. Thank you for all your advice throughout the past year. I hope you all have a lovely Christmas and new year xxxxx

[Ewife]

I'm So so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and your Dad.Reminder to us all today to hold on tight to those around us

🤗Xx

[Kji378]

Oh sweetheart bless you. 💞 Sending you the most biggest ❤ Look after yourselves and know she is out of any pain. Lots of love to you 💫🌈🕯

[Sammyjoe2]

I’m so so sorry to hear this, bless your lovely mum and know that she is now at peace. Take care of yourself and your Dad. 💔

[chrisw740]

How absolutely rotten. It's hard to imagine the pain and grief that the you're feeling. Whilst your pain is yours alone, please believe that you're not alone in so many other meaningful ways.

Very good thoughts, wishes and condolences being sent your way on this poignant day. I hope that in time, Christmas day is only a reminder of happier occasions shared over the years with your mum. Take good care of yourselves. Chris x

[BetulaT]

I'm so sorry for your loss... Sending you hugs xxx

[Zukosmile07]

I hate liver disease, I guess you do.... You wouldn't believe how much us who suffer/have suffered understand.So sorry for your loss 😢.

Sending you some love 💞.

Sorry Danny x

[pushthrough]

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s painful 😓 to hear! Sending you love from the USA.

[AlexJ91]

Sending you sincere condolences & lots of love to get through this difficult time. Very similar experience for me in October 2021, my inbox is always open if you want to chat xx

[Jomby1]

I’m so sorry for your loss 😢

[mncold]

Deepest sympathies to you and your Dad.

[DavyGravy]

I'm sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your father.

Dave

[Sweetpeesue]

Thinking of you. X

[Positive001]

I am so sorry to read this .... no you're right it's a horrible end and the pain you feel will be immense. Losing your Mum creates a void which can never be filled. With the support you and your Dad can give each other, cherish the happy times you had. Laura xx

[Limalama]

So sorry for the loss of your mum, and also your dad's illness - tragic at any time, but especially this time of year. I hope you'll get some comfort from knowing she's out of pain now and in due course you'll be able to remember the better times. Much love, Louise xx

[Aotea2012]

I’m so sorry to read about your mum. I know when I lost mine a few years ago, I was lost for a bit. She didn’t have liver disease but had started dementia, which for her was awful. She lost her independence, which for the feisty woman she was, was an incredible blow. She died suddenly, fast asleep on the sofa. I’m still convinced she willed it. In her more lucid moments she would tell us she that she was miserable being like she was. It was a release for her. I suspect your mum was in a similar place with her liver disease. It’s pretty tough for everyone left, but you’ll still have your happy memories of her. Remember her like that. Take care of yourself and your dad.

[Hidden in reply to Aotea2012]

Aotea, I had a very similar thing with my Mum. I remember her asking me what her pills were for and looking back I think she deliberately didn't take them to bring on a stroke (her 2nd) She hated the dementia and had lost my Dad 2 years before. We had watched Terry Pratchett on how he wanted to choose when to go and we both agreed - I hadn't realised at the time I agreeing to her taking it into her own hands, it was a happy release but left a big hurting hole in me.

[steckles]

I’m so sorry for your loss xx

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your dad. Take care xxx

[Simonamur]

Oh no I am really sorry for your loss! My dad is 52 years old has decompensated cirrhosis and currently in hospital with pleural effusion, he can’t breathe properly and I am so scared this day will come anytime soon.

[Toffegirl]

Thank you all for your lovely messages. Xxxxxxxxxxxx

[pip-lit]

I am so sorry xxxxxx

[Dogbot]

So sorry to hear that news it’s a terrible disease and cause’s heart breaks for a lot of people, my heart goes out to you and your family 💕.Stay Safe All

Dogbot 🐶🌈 Dave

[Hidden]

So sorry for your loss. You probably feel you will never get over it and literally hurt inside, but it will get better. You find you can push it to the back and hurt a little less. For a while you will go to phone her about something or go to buy something as 'Mum would like that' and it will slam you back to the feeling the loss. Look after yourself and your Dad xx

[Readlots]

I’m so sorry to hear about your Mum. I lost mine to PBC in July and it’s just horrible watching someone you live go through that. Time to look after yourselves now. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions. Be kind to yourself and do what you need to do to get through this difficult time. You’re not alone. Sending peace and strength xxx

[Billie246]

So so sorry for your loss after a long battle. We’ll cry with you xxx

[kyia]

So very sorry for your loss xx

[mauschen]

I am so sorry for your loss and for the trauma you had to endure. Watching your mum struggle in her last moments must have been terrible for you. Plus knowing how frail your father was has put an enormous burden onto your shoulders.God bless you

[ABD58]

So sorry for your loss.

[Katmando]

So sorry for your loss, I lost my mum nearly 16 years ago and all I can say is you will never forgot your mum .....eventually the good times come to the front of your thoughts....perhaps not the sad ones that perhaps you are experiencing now. Sending hugs xxxx

[Goldfish4]

So sad about mum God bless u x

[AyrshireK]

Just catching up with the forum and I am really saddened to hear that you lost Mum especially on Christmas Day. Thoughts with you all at this sad time and hope you manage to look after yourself in all this and come to remember the better times you had with Mum.

Loads of love to you.

Katie x

[LemonMeringue15]

I'm so sorry for your loss

[Glenfaba123]

Oh im so very sorry for your loss sending heartfelt hugs to you ❤️

[Kingsleybones]

So sorry that your mum died. Liver disease is so tough, so painful, so harsh. But her pain is over now. All I can say is what these other kind souls are saying: you and your dad, be kind and gentle with yourself and with each other. Let yourself grieve. After all grief is love too, isn’t it? It will take time but the happy memories will come back again for you both. You carry her in your heart. Bless you for all the love and care you showed her.

[Hidden]

Dear Toffegirl, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending our condolences to you,Trust10 x

[Cat551]

So sorry for your loss.

[Violet74]

So sorry ❤️😕🙏

[Beachbug]

I'm so very sorry to hear this and my heart goes out to you. I lost my Mum a month ago today and the last couple of weeks for her was so similar to your Mum's. It really is such a difficult and heartbreaking thing to see. There are no words I can say to help your pain but just know that I and many others on here are thinking of you. Sending you strength and love and be kind to yourself xx

[Toffegirl]

Thank you for your kind messages. Xxxxxxxxx

[redpoint72]

some times u don't know what to say..but I fully understand your loss.....things will b difficult..again a tear in my own eye....it is never easy.....but please remember...we r all hear to help in one way or another...my deepest condolences my duck. chris

[ROCKO2231]

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts, prayers and Big Hugs from Canada

[Readlots]

Hi Toffegirl, Just wondering how you’re doing? There’s so much to do and so many emotions after someone dies. I hope you and Dad are OK