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I have been on the site a few times either asking a few questions about my mother in law, or reading posts to see how everyone else is doing.

The sad news is that my mother in law passed away on the 16th june.

She had been admitted to hospital with cellulitus in her leg. whilst she was in she had another drain, but complications where a vein was caught, she needed 3 pints of blood, but did improve.

The problem was because her kidneys started to struggle and her platelets were very low, the options for treatment were limited.

The doctors spoke to my mother in law and she asked to be let home on palliative c are.

She spent a week at home with family and passed peacefully in her sleep.

The illness did not get her down and she was always positive,.

Thank you again for support given when I needed it.

Gina x

This is a pic of my mother in law, me and hubby. she was always smiling x

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Isabelle2

Oh my love, I’m so sorry.

Your Mum in law looks a wonderful, happy lady.

When my mum died of something unrelated I know we would have loved to have her home at the last but it wasn’t possible. I hope that as a family you managed to have a bit of happy time before she died.

NASH and all other liver diseases are terrible and it’s a big pity she became decompensated.

Sending you lots of love and best wishes

Isabelle xxx

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Ginaebbs in reply to Isabelle2

Thank you so much for your reply. I'm sorry to hear about your mum, its the hardest thing to lose your mum, my mum passed in 2011 of myeloma. x

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Isabelle2 in reply to Ginaebbs

You did your best for your Mum in law. She died with you all around. I wish you all peace.

Izzy xx

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Ginaebbs in reply to Isabelle2

Thank you xx

So sorry to hear that Gina. Two consolations - imho - are that she died in her sleep and she was at home with you...

Hope you both are starting to get over it....

Miles

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Ginaebbs in reply to

Thank you for your reply, it is most appreciated. You are right , she was at home and just went to sleep, the way we would want to go. We have the funeral on Tuesday so are keeping busy, but remembering the good times x

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wildlifegal

So sorry to hear of your loss. It sounds as though your mother in law was very well loved and will be missed.

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Ginaebbs in reply to wildlifegal

Thank you wildlifegal, she was loved very much and will be missed a lot , but glad she isnt in anymore pain x

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alfredthegreat

Hi Gina. I'm so sorry to hear the sad news about your mother in law. It must be a great comfort to you that she went peacefully in her sleep and knew nothing about it. My thoughts are with you and your family. Very best wishes. Alf

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Ginaebbs in reply to alfredthegreat

Thank you for your kind words, we were comforted that my mother in law went to sleep peacefully, we are sad that she is no longer with us, but relieved that she is no more pain x

Hi Gina so sorry for your loss, I am sending you a virtual hug right now there are no words I can say. I am just so terribly sorry. Jaycee

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Thank you so much for your kind words x

So so sad, I will light a candle for her and give a thought for you all

David

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Thank you so much x

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Pishi123

I am sorry for your loss. She was obviously much loved. Angela

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Ginaebbs in reply to Pishi123

She was Angela, thank you for your kind words x

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davianne

Oh Gina, such sad news. At least you can gain solace that she was with you at home, and passed peacefully. I sincerely hope and pray that you and your family can grieve together as one, and hopefully remember her in better times. Thinking of you at this sad time.

David

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Ginaebbs in reply to davianne

thank you so much, that is the comfort we have ,that she passed peacefully x

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LorraineLouise

My heart is with you. So comforting that she was home and surrounded by those she love the most. I hope you can take some peace and comfort in that. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family .

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Ginaebbs in reply to LorraineLouise

Thank you for your kind words. We were comforted by her being at home surrounded by family x

Hi

You are in my thoughts and prayers and that she got her wish to be at home and you were all with her. A lovely photo of you, your mother in law and your husband .

Sending lots of love and hugs Lynne xxxx

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Countrywalks

So sorry for your loss .not many liver patients get the chance to pass peacefully at home you did your very best to do the right thing for your mother in law may god comfort you in your loss bless you .xx

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