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I saved my partners life today

I saved my partners life today with CPR I am still in shock . I ache all over feel sick but we are both ok .

The wedding has to be cancelled but who cares he is alive .

Now for some sleep.

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I think you are brilliant. Your partner must be so proud of you as I'm sure your family, friends and everyone on here is too. Very well done. You both take care and get some well earned sleep. Lots of love Lynne xxxx

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you poor thing... what happened to him?? I'm feeling very sorry for your situation..... cazer

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Be proud of yourself Sharon20, you have given your partner another chance at life. Your quick thinking , skills and actions are to be commended... well done!

No doubt you will be physically and emotionally drained, in need of some rest but perhaps seek some counselling afterwards as this situation can have lasting effects.

God bless you

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How is your partner?

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Nods..thank go you were there! My son who is a friend reman, EMT and emergency first responder in the s says what your u see the n TV is fake..they don't realize what it takes, and how hard it is..no t to mention your u have to crack bones to even get to the heart that pump it!

Take a nap..you have earned t sweetie!

Cheering your u on!

Kimberly

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So glad you were there and knew what to do.

My son had to perform cpr on me once and cracking my ribs was traumatizing for him. He had to have councellingto process the needless guilt bless him.

I hope your fiance is recovering well.

Congrats

Rita x

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Hi

How is your partner now? Also,how are you feeling? Xxxx

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Well done Sharon, what a horrible things for you to go through. I hope you re starting to be a little less shell shocked and can re-arrange the wedding for a more suitable time, and I hope that your husband to be is on the road to recovery!

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Take care both of you. I hope you are both feeling a bit better now. Being with each other and being there for each other is the most important part of a relationship.

Gx

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Well they think that he has cancer , he has a bowel obstruction and he is being classed as critical . His family have been very nasty to me and we have received his P45 in the post.

God knows what we are going to do.

His biopsy won't be back until next week And the medical team are having a meeting on Wednesday so I should know more then.

Yes and I did crack his ribs .

I keep having flash backs of him not breathing on the floor and I can't sleep and I feel Sick 24/7 I can't eat I am not hungry.

He through a jug of water over me yesterday as I cancelled the Honeymoon and would not give him his passport or any money. And was shouting and swearing at me

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Hi Sharon, how are things ? How are you? Are you still having flashbacks etc as if so then it might be PTSD symptoms as I have experienced that too, I would say having to revive your fiancé is a pretty traumatic experience and a big shock! Just a thought but I'd perhaps speak to someone if it persists..

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Hi , he is still in hospital and they think he has Crohns disease hopefully we will know a bit more tomorrow .

I am still having flash backs I can't eat or sleep and I am worried sick .

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