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Thought this little poem I wrote may help some one

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Sandy70
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look in the mirror who do I see

Who is this stranger looking at me

With part of her body hacked away

As she strips off her clothes at the end of the day

One half is normal and still womanly

The other is gross where a breast used to be

Her long blonde hair is no more

As she stares back at me like a prisoner of war

Her eyes are empty her skin is pale

Her hands are chapped and chipped are her nails

She wears a smile for most of the day

But that slowly fades as the clothes peel away

Repulsed by a body where once there was pride

Now she feels the need to hide

Cancer came and took its toll

Will she ever again feel whole

I look back at this woman and feel her pain

I know she'll never be the same

Then once again the smile begins

As a burst of pride comes from deep within

Hold your head up lady the fight has just begun

All the treatments over and so far you have won

Cancer may have took your breast

It may of took your hair

But it couldn't take your spirit

It's still deep down in there

As I

Look in the mirror the stranger is me

And I thank The Lord there's someone to see x

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Lainey66 profile image
Lainey66

This has just made me cry as it is just how I feel. Thank you for sharing this. Xxx

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Sandy70โ€ข in reply toLainey66

Aw sorry didn't mean it to make you cry just thought it's good to know others are feeling the same emotions xxxx

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Lainey66โ€ข in reply toSandy70

It certainly is good to know. No matter how well meaning our family and friends are they dont know what is going on inside us. I used to love my long soaks in my bubble filled bath. I hate them now. I had a double mastectomy xx

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Sandy70

I hate my body too , but I love my life more now I appreciate everything I have I only lost one boob but when I look at it I feel like a freak . I try not too look too often lol x

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teddy777โ€ข in reply toSandy70

me too sandy70. I am new to it and haven't begun to come to terms with it.xx

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Mandywilson

I don't hate my body ... I see no breasts but a scar ... My battle scars !!

But I can understand that other women may see it differently . I hope it time you can all accept that this is just your body and not who YOU are .. Xxx ๐Ÿ’ž

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Jennymary

Remember, although I'm sure it's extremely hard, that with 2, 1 or no breasts you are still Sandy who likes......... (finish off by adding the things you like in your life)

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Sandy70โ€ข in reply toJennymary

Don't get me wrong I don't feel bitter or sad about my mastectomy I am happy with who I am it's just my body I don't like lol ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

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Grocklie

Perfectly summed up xxx

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paulam1

Summed up how i feelโ˜บafter mascetomy and treatment have felt that some people assume i should be back to how i was pre cancer. Im finding new set of obstacles to get over.im due to go back to work on 11th july..i put bra and prostsis on for first time since december and found it heavy and tiring. I also had a stroke after first round of chemo on easter sunday. So have had problems with hands .my hair also fell out at same time.feel really crappy about myself at moment and confidence is at an al time low.this isthe first time ive posted on here but have read other peoples posts which have helped with questions ive had.i would like to thank all you brave ladies and wish everyone good health and luck for the future xx lots of love paula xx

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Jennymaryโ€ข in reply topaulam1

Hi Paula, I wish you good health and luck for the future xxxx

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paulam1โ€ข in reply toJennymary

Thank you xxโ˜บ

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Sandy70โ€ข in reply topaulam1

Aw ๐Ÿ˜” Hope you soon feel better , I forget I don't have a boob when I have my prosthesis in X X x

Your poem is absolutely spot on thank you for sharing it xx

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Sandy70โ€ข in reply to

Your welcome xxxx hope it helps on some way

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Jillyannepope28

Thank you for sharing this poem X it is so true and as like you I am a survivor X I read this and i got a little emotional X thank you again your amazing ๐Ÿ’•

OMG that is absolutely spot on. Lovely words & sums it up exactly. I keep getting told I was 'lucky' because I didn't need chemo or radiotherapy,but I don't feel lucky to have lost one of my breasts. I don't feel lucky to have had to go through egg harvesting at the age of 37, and injecting hormones which gave me cancer in the first place. I've had reconstruction & still awaiting nipple reconstruction but I can't bear to look at it. Your poem sums it up exactly xx

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Sandy70

Be lucky your alive , lots of people didn't make it after cancer , I know how you feel though it's hard xxx

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Surviver

That's do lovely o hope you are well big hugs xx

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nikonBlue

Awww, thats so inspiring........I love it x

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Sandy70โ€ข in reply tonikonBlue

Thank you ๐Ÿ˜€

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Sandy70

Thank you xx

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Lorraineam

I thought it would bother me having a mastectomy, but it hasn't. I was more bothered about losing my hair with the chemo and wouldn't leave the house without my wig or a hat on.

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Sandy108

Beautifully written, wow โค

Much love to all you lovely ladies xx

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lovesradio

Absolutely spot on in every line, you are a star, made me cry too!!

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mags4

Its like your reading my mind very well put together, well done and thanks.

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Lindakelly

Brilliant! Exactly how it is! Thank you x

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1508

Thank you for this it's me to a tee xx

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Izzytay123

I'm six weeks post mastectomy and still feel strange when I look in the mirror. What is now my good side is scared by a previous WLE. I suppose I'll get used to it in time xxx

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GillyWat

Bless you, I know we all feel the same, but I thank God every day for the fact that we are still here. Stay strong xx

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nikonBlue

here's something I designed....

"I think the hardest part of cancer treatment is at the end -

when everyone assumes you're 'cured'

and you no longer need their help.

You're in your weakest most devastated state, plus

you no longer have the mission you had when you began

this journey: to kill the cancer.

The cancer is toast, but so are you, and now, like a soldier

at the end of war, you need help putting yourself back together again

only everyone has gone home

since they assume

the war

has

been

won.

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PerformancePoetโ€ข in reply tonikonBlue

This is so true. Iโ€™ve been thro this 3 times and people always assume Iโ€™m ok after treatment ends. And itโ€™s never like that.

Iโ€™d be interested to hear how you are doing now three years on

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nikonBlueโ€ข in reply toPerformancePoet

hi there, almost 4 years post diagnosis now and barring several hiccups of worry, I'm doing not too bad. I have atrial fibrillation which has flared up in the last few months and I can't help but wonder if the radiotherapy has done some 'damage' as my bc was my left breast.

I'm due my next yearly mammogram in sept/October so fingers crossed yet again.

The poem id very apt though. I don't speak of any health worry I might have or tests i'm having because people really do think it's done and dusted so what am I worrying about! If only they understood eh?

Hope you are doing ok too,

stay well

Blue :-) x

Sandy70 profile image
Sandy70

I feel exactly the same ๐Ÿ˜”

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teddy777

Thank you so much I wish you good health comfort and love xx

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