Really need advice

[Nicoley]

I had my period 2 weeks ago and they are not regular. I had unprotected sex 9 days ago and I’m having spotting and cramping. Is there a chance I’m pregnant?

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

There's always a chance hun when we have unprotected sex, if your period doesn't show and the spotting stops do a test. 💗🤗😘

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thanks for replying, I’ve had pregnancy scares before and this time it’s different.

It only started yesterday.. spotting, cramps but no where near as bad as a period also tender breasts. My situation right now it wouldn’t be ideal to be pregnant but it feels different this time, I feel different!

I’ve seen a lot of things saying I couldn’t have been ovulating at that time but my periods are so irregular as I come off the depo last year around feb

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Tbh my last pregnancy I knew because I was spotting real light pink I knew after the spotting had finished a few days later I did a test and it was positive. It ended in miscarriage 💔

I think you should wait a bit then test if your period doesn't show after the spotting. 💗🤗😘

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Oh I’m really sorry to hear that! 😩that’s awful!

Yeah I think I might do, just feels weird this time and don’t know wether that’s good or bad

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Do you want to be pregnant xx

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

I really don’t know 😕, I had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend who i was previously with for 7 years our situation is very messed up it would be bad timing so I’m not entirely sure x

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Oh gosh, if it's Any help in any way my daughter came along at the most stressful time in my life I was terribly depressed after loosing my dad and I was Also going through a, rocky patch with my other half just moved to my mums too after letting my apt go, he finished with me three days later I found out I was pregnant, we got back together and it was a struggle but now she's 4 we're tighter than ever before he's built our family home with his brother literally from scratch we're going on our first family holiday next month and he's going to propose sometime soon. Something we never seen coming but it's all lovely and it took a lot of growing up talking understanding and teamwork, when you've known each other for so long and you've both obviously still got something for each other as your still sleeping together. Sometimes all it takes is hard core heart to hearts and reality checks. Maybe things might change for the better 💗🤗😘

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Wow! It’s good to hear it made yous stronger than ever though! I guess I’ll just have to see how things go, just wish I knew sooner so I could get my head around it I guess xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

What's your spotting like. Do you normally spot before your period xx

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

To be honest I’ve never experienced this before, it’s just very light blood on my underwear and the tiniest bit when I’m wiping. Light pinkish when I go to the toilet xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Almost like baby pink. That's what my spotting was like I spotted like that only when I wiped for 5 days was convinced it was my period coming. Maybe you are if you haven't experienced this before. God thinking you are and not knowing is annoying, how longs it been going on for? 💗🤗😘

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Yeah like baby pink. If only started on Monday but I only had my period 2 weeks ago but my periods are so irregular I have no idea when I’m ovulating so I’m so confused! I feel different in a weird way I can’t even explain it..

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Did you period finish two weeks, ago bloody hell being irregular must be a headache, if I was you I'd order some cheap tests of eBay or Amazon you can get loads for 3 quid and keep testing till your period does come or you get an answer. Least you'll feel like your doing something if that makes sense.💗🤗😘

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Yeah it finished 2 weeks ago. Yeah it’s not great but that’s the joys of being on the depo for 6.5 years 😩! Yeah I might do so maybe I’ll get some kind of answer to put my mind at ease I guess xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Bless ya. I hate synthetic hormones they really do mess us up don't they, good luck lovely keep me updated either way. Wish you all the best.💗🤗😘

[Nicoley]

Thank you I really appreciate it and will keep you in the know xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

How you doing hun xxx

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Still not done anymore tests, got constipation, starting to feel sick now though xxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Really could well be when are you gonna test. Xxx

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Part of me was going to just wait and see if my period comes which is around 12 days away xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

Ohhhh ok just do that then see what happens xxx

[Nicoley in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Yeah I’m thinking so.. adding up all my symptoms and if my period was 24th of jan then I’d have been ovulating around the 31st and then possible implantation would be the 6th 7th and 8th and that’s when I had the spotting and I’ve been feeling sick this morning and I’ve still been having cramps which started on Monday xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nicoley]

If you got a, sensitive test you could, test Monday you know. But your right wait till your period if that's, what you'd prefer to do. Does sound like you've worked it all out we do know our bodies 💗🤗😘

[Nicoley]

Yeah I’m just going to wait and see probably the best way.. just more because if it says no again I’ll just worry it’s still wrong.

Yeah that’s the thing this is just a really strange feeling so looking like it xx

[Becca21]

There's always a chance to get pregnant when you have unprotected sex.... and if you've got a whimsical cycle the risk of getting an unwanted pregnancy only gets doubled. If at all this is the implantation bleeding in 4-5 days time the HPT will show up a BFP. Just wait till then and POAS to be sure about pregnancy.