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I made a post about being scared about the possibility of me being pregnant and now I'm terrified.

I'm 15 years old, I'm a virgin but my now recently ex boyfriend entered me with pre-cum on his hand

I took a pregnancy test 3 days after my period was due and it was negative, it's now 8 days and I still haven't the come on.

I'm getting abdominal pains (not like period cramps though), breast pains and I've had an increase in white discharge.

Should I take another test? I've got the clear blue digital one with the weeks on it. It's supposed to be the most accurate.

I'm literally panicking, if I am pregnant I don't know if I'd have the strength to go through an abortion but I know I couldn't have the baby, I'm so young and so unhealthy that something would almost definitely go wrong and if something happened to the baby because of my mental health disorders or physical health problems I wouldn't be able to live with myself.

I know you can go to clinics without your parents knowing, I don't know where to find them and I can't talk to my mum because me and her really don't get on.

I'm so scared :(

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valuablepeople

Wait for another week and then take the test again. Do not panic for now.

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Kate91

Theres a number of reasons periods come late. if you are a virgin then you cant be pregnant. you need to calm down.and.find your local clinic a quick google search will do that. periods arent always perfectly on time. ive gone 2 months without having one when i was your age and i wasnt sexually active.till 17

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romaluna2015

If still no period in 5 more days take a test . Clear blues don't always prove to be the most accurate .. as they are not the most sensitive of tests . I tested with 25ml test and got a positive . Try not to panic .. do another test and if not ask an adult you trust to book you a doctors appointment x

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Hi There,

Please do go along to your local young people's clinic nhs.uk/Service-Search/Sexua... use this link to find it with your post code. Or brook.org.uk/find-a-service... this is also a great web site with lots of information about sex, contraception and pregnancy and you may have a local Brook near you. Your school nurse should also be able to help, and do a pregnancy test with you. It's best to do it with some adult support (especially a nurse), as they can work out dates to make sure the test is accurate. Try not to worry yourself too much, as that too can delay periods. do go and seek some help.

Best Wishes

jules

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