Update

[Chalky2]

Thought I would update all my wonderful friends who were very supportive when I posted about my husband who has recently died. I am not to bad health wise managing to eat a bit more hence I have gained a pound in weight. Everything is still so raw my husband’s funeral is Friday the 20th of December so you can imagine Christmas means nothing this year. Thank you all again for your wonderful support love Pauline xxx

[sassy59]

Sending healing and love to you Pauline at such a difficult time. Take care. Xxxx

[SORRELHIPPO]

I will think of you, hope you have some support over Christmas.

[peege]

I do sympathise, my children's father died 10th Dec 2010- the winter of snowstorms. It was very difficult indeed, he was deeply loved too.

2015 10th became a happy day when little Rafael was born.

I'm glad you're sharing here, there are so many who can empathise xxx P

[Spacecat1]

Thinking of you and your family will light a candle at mass for. Xx take care

[Kittykat2]

💛💛💕x

[Bkin]

💛💛💕 from me too xoxox

[RoadRunner44]

Words seem so futile at a time like this Chalky2. You just go through the motions of life. As much as it is difficult to believe at this time, you will eventually find your way through this dreadful heartache which for the moment appears to have no end. Yes, things will be different from now on but with the support of friends and family you will find a way through it all. Thanks for sharing your feelings with us here. Many of us, including myself, have experienced the situation you find yourself in. We are always here whenever you need to unburden your feelings. For now, I send you a big Welsh cwtch (hug) . Chrys x

[corriena]

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers sending warm huggs xx

[Hacienda]

Sending you a Cuddle Pauline, I had said same in my family, first Christmas without my Children's Step Mum, our Great Grandchildren ask if Nana will be back for Christmas. They have chosen a Star in their Spanish Sky having named here "Nana Star", They seem to be consoled by this. Thinking of you Pauline & Your Family at this very sad time. Love To you All. XXX C.

[powderpuff]

Thinking of you Pauline 💕

[Oshgosh]

Won’t be a good Christmas for you.

You’ll be going through the motions at Christmas.

I will be thinking of you.

[Gingerboy1960]

Pauline stay strong, it’s such an awful time for you and your family. Sending love 💕

[illawarra]

Love, hugs and prayers of comfort you.

[Nicholatracy]

So very sorry - prayers on the wings of Angels across the Atlantic Ocean -

[Corin1950]

Take good care of yourself, Pauline.

Thinking of you

Corin

X

[Izb1]

Thinking of you, sending love and support and this very sad time x

[HungryHufflepuff]

Thinking of you. Sending you love 💐

[shouty]

Oh I do know how you feel having lost my young nephew & my Mum & my best friend all in one year. I have explained to folks how Christmas gifts & cards don't seem right this year. Instead I am giving the money I would have spent to various charities instead.

[Spring1]

It’s a horrible time for you

. I called it the year of firsts. First Christmas, birthday, anniversary etc. Thoughts are with you hope all goes as well as it can xx

[karenjenna1146]

Hi Chalky2, thinking of you at this very sad time. I know what you mean about Christmas meaning nothing right now as I lost my fabulous husband Alan on 3 September. Just had our 35th wedding anniversary without him. Very hard. I am feeling a little more settled now with the fantastic support of my family and friends but miss him and our life like crazy. Alan was my carer, I am staying with my sister but have bought a little house 3 doors up from her which needs renovation so lots to organise so something to aim for. It’s definitely life changing. Take each day at a time sweetie. All the very very best to you and everyone one else on the sight. Love Karen xxx

[bobbysgirl1]

I understand your feelings, lost my husband to. Bless you x

[Dedalus]

Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. Hugs x

[watergazer]

My mum died just before Christmas a long time ago now so I know how you must be feeling. Great news you are eating better. It will be a strange Christmas for you this year and in the future however hold onto all the happy memories and your husband will be with you in spirit. Keep strong. Anita x

[mikeadams51]

Try to stay strong and I hope all goes smoothly

[cofdrop-UK]

Sending lots of love and very gentle hugs Pauline.

With love cx

[Hidden]

Dear Chalky2 . . .may you carry on through this terrible time. . .and onwards in year ahead. I will keep you in my prayers , especially Dec 20.

[Ergendl]

Thinking of you today. Hope all goes as you would wish. Blessings on all who attend the funeral.