End of lifetime

[Sanpedro2019]

After a five year I have 2/ 3 months to live thanks for e everyone. Sanlrdto

[BeKind28-]

Hello

I have just been looking at your previous posts and can see it has been a while since you last posted and I have not been lucky enough to get to know you as I see you have a sense of humour in some of your previous posts

But I am so sorry to read this post and lost for words to be honest

I am not sure what has happened and I hope a miracle happens whatever is going of

Sending my very best wishes x

[Lezzers]

Hi Sanpedro

I am truly very sorry to hear this, have they totally run out of options for you? So many new meds around these days, though of course not suitable for everyone & Indeed don't work for everyone.

Sending you my very best wishes, you & your family are in my thoughts xx

[Sanpedro2019 in reply to Lezzers]

End o life unfortunately there is nothing more they can do .I am staying at home with my family not scared

[Lezzers in reply to Sanpedro2019]

I'm really am so sorry, I know you have your faith and I know that will sustain you & your family until you meet again.

It's really lovely that you've chosen to stay home with your family where you will be surrounded by love.

I am humbled by your acceptance & so glad you're at peace with it.

Xx

[Sanpedro2019 in reply to Lezzers]

Thanks for all your kind comments

San pedro

[Tos92]

I’m sorry I didn’t get a chance to get to know you as I am a ‘newish’ member.

I just wanted to let you know that I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts and like BeKind has said, I hope there is a miracle coming your way.

All my best to you & your family during this difficult time.

Tos xx

[Sanpedro2019 in reply to Tos92]

Many thanks

[Cee-Cee1]

I'm so very sorry to read your post, Sanpedro and, like BeKind, am somewhat lost for words. I will be thinking of you and your family. Carol

[Yumz199725]

I honestly don't know what to say to you I'm speechless hun 💔🥺😣. X

[Cavalierrubie]

l am so sorry of your diagnosis. I didn’t know what to say at first and then l thought none of us know when we will leave this place to go home. It could be sooner for us who knows. The thing is we all have to go and if you do go, you will get there first and we will follow. We are all getting on a bit on here so we have to accept this is part of life. I admire your courage and great attitude. I hope your faith and family will be a great comfort to you. I hope you have some happy days yet. God bless, love and prayers.

[1234_6]

Hi SanpredroI'm very sorry to hear your news & feel that you are very brave to share this news with us all.

Lezzerz email above refers to you having faith, so I 🙏 that your God will provide you and your family & friends with peace & strenth & courage during these last few months as they will be difficult for you all.

I hope that you get to share old happy memories & laughter & a chance to say all you that you want to, including that you love them & wish them well & to say goodbye too, while letting them know that you believe you are going to a better place & that you will meet again in the future.

It's so lovely to hear that your faith is strong enough for you not to be scared.

That's such a wonderful gift that you are trying to give & leave to your friends & family - because with that strong sense of your faith, when the time comes it will help them through their grief as they can be very comforted by it.

I 🙏 that your God will continue to be by your side 24/7 in this final journey, & that he will have your room in his house ready to welcome you at the appropriate time, and have the heavenly / celestial celebrations prepared also.

In the meantime Please do ensure that you have GP support & visiting nursing support if you need it, as they should put measures in place to keep you as comfortable and pain free as possible.

All my love

[Anon2023]

hi. I’m sorry that I didn’t get to know you but I am thinking of you and relieved that you are able to spend your final months surrounded by the love of your family X

[Milkfairy Heart Star]

I am so sorry to read your news.I can only endorse Lezzer's comments.

Talking about our own and another's death is not easy.

Maybe it's something we should do more often.

Thank you for having the courage to raise the issue with such dignified, calm and peaceful acceptance.

I am glad to hear you will be at home, surrounded by those whom you love and who love you.

I was sat with my eldest brother in September, as we said our final goodbyes to my elder brother.

He was at home as he had wanted. He left us surrounded by love.

His family were fully supported by the local hospice team. I hope this will be available for you.

Adieu.

[Chappychap]

I admire your courage and honesty in talking about the inevitable. We've all got to go sometime, maybe having such a clear check-out date helps get our thoughts in order?

Good luck!

[Heyjude31]

Sending you love and prayers to you and your family. Your courage is an inspiration to us all. 🙏❤️

[MyHF]

I am 37 years old-exactly half your age(give or take a few months) I have been a member of this community for less than 1 year due to my diagnosis of AF, SVT, cardiomyopathy and heart failure in October last year. I have lost my dad aged 54, his brother aged 54, their other brother aged 26 and my own brother aged 27 all to the same diseases. I have 2 young children, a son aged 8 and a daughter 4. I can only wish you the best. Having looked at some of your posts years ago, a joke teller and a fisher with your sons. I have read so many inspirational stories on this forum. There are trouble maker then a few like you, positive upbeat and inspiring. Please take care of yourself while you can and all the best!!😀

[Callie456]

Sending you love and prayers, may you share many precious moments with your family and friends every day, until God takes you home. 💖🙏🌹

[Livelovelife56]

Sending to you and your family prayers and strength. I didn't really see any of your previous messages as I am fairly new here and I am here for my youngest son. When I saw your post I was truly shocked but even through the message there is a calmness that is very powerful. Enjoy your time with your family 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[Adhtz21]

Hi San Pedro, so sorry to read your post. The medical profession seems to be quite harsh at times. I know of two other people with such news. Good luck to you and I hope that you prove them wrong. You seem to have a positive frame of mind which can help immensely.

[Shiney1959]

San Pedro I am not great at writing posts, but I just want to say that you & your family will be in my thoughts & prayers ❤️

[Plum53]

So very sorry to hear your sad news. At a loss on what to say but you are in my thoughts . Glad you get to spend this time with your family around you. X

[GrannyE]

Thank you for sharing. So pleased you are able to be at home. Carpe Diem.

[JeremiahObadiah]

Good Morning.

Thank you for your brave post-sad news indeed.

I hope you have as comfortable and happy last few weeks as are possible for you.

Sending you love and best wishes. Keep posting if it helps you to process what is going on.

[Blearyeyed]

Sorry to hear your news San Pedro , but I admire your bravery after reading that you are not scared and must have come to terms with your diagnosis.It is also good to hear that you are getting the chance to spend your last few months with your family and getting the opportunity to create some last few happy memories together.

How are your family coping , are they as prepared as yourself?

Enjoy your last precious moments to the full, best wishes , Bee

[Digger0]

I'm a newish member here so do not know you. I have reread all your jokes and they are brilliant. I hope your last summer is a nice one. Sorry you have come to the end of the line.

[Heartfairy]

Sending love and prayers to you and your family. Be brave young man ❤️🧚🏼‍♀️

[Mountwood]

Like so many others, I am lost for words, but all I can say is how much I admire your courageous attitude and send my thoughts and best wishes.

[MountainGoat52]

Sorry to hear the latest news. Words fail me at times like this, but you are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Sunnysummerdays]

Sending love and prayers to you and your family,❤️🙏x

[sampaloc0624]

everybody have a purpose / mission in this world. Thanks for being there. Praying He have another mission for you.

[Thumper76]

God Bless lovely brave man ❤️

[Silvertail]

Sanpedro, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I hope for a miracle for you. Hugs xx.

Sandy

[fairyfeathers]

sending you and your family gentle hugs and love. xx

[bludnut]

Good morning, I am so sorry to hear your news and I hope that you have support from your family.Did you make a 'bucket list' and did you complete it? If you did, I hope you enjoyed everything. My wife and I,81 & 79 enjoy cruise holidays, so we use that as our 'bucket' and try to go somewhere new each year.

bludnut

[Harefieldfan]

I’m so sorry to hear this Sanpedro. And also am at a loss for words, except to say take care.

[Goldfish7]

I wish I had known you better on this site, you will be a big miss. I'm hoping all goes well for you as you approach this last great adventure (or possibly not last!!) It comes to us all and Im guessing your humour and stoicism will enable you to sail through peacefully. All the best.

[jowalk6]

God bless you and your family. You are so brave. May God carry you when the time comes ,🙏💕

[Jackabee]

I cannot add anything useful to what the info there have said but you are in my thoughts

[Pouchielou1972]

Dear Sanpedro2019 I'm so so sorry to hear you are now on end of life care. It's comforting to know you won't be spending this delicate time on your own, but surrounded by your family. Sending a virtual hug from one heartie to another 💖

[Heartstogether]

thank you for having the courage to share this difficult news, your bravery and honesty are a lesson to us all. Comfort and be comforted by your family and I wish you a peaceful love filled end to your life.

[MaggieSylvie]

So sorry to hear your news, Sanpedro. It sounds as if you have recently been given this news, in which case it must have been a shock. Thank goodness you are not afraid and have your family around you.🤗🤗

[Alison_L]

So sorry to read this, Sanpedro. Make sure you get all the help available. If there is a local hospice, they might have a community team who will work alongside your regular GP and community nurses. There's plenty of help out there for you and your family. Don't feel you're putting pressure on anyone by asking.

Best wishes, Alison x

[Ailsablue]

So sorry there is nothing more they can do for you. Sending much love and prayers ❤️ 🙏

[Bowcat]

Hello 👋,I'm beside myself as to what to say, but I am in awe of your bravery. I am so sorry to hear your sad news 😔 but I am so pleased to hear that you are surrounded by your loved ones. May God protect you and look over you! I shall keep you in my prayers 🙏❤️. Lots of love 🤗

[gorillaqueen]

Hello Sanpedro I do not know you as I am a newish member but after reading your post I am amazed at how strong and courageous you are, a true inspiration. Sending ❤️🙏 to you and your family Xx.

[cappachina]

I haven't seen you on since I only joined last year but I am so sorry you are facing the journey we all must make one day You are facing it with bravery and will be joining loved ones who have gone before I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers over the next months

[Airlie37]

I'm so sorry to read this and really don't know what to say.You and your family are in my thoughts xx

[Blueflags]

Hi Sanpedro,

I don’t post on this site very often but on hearing you news I felt it important to do so. I am so sorry that you’ve been given this diagnosis and can only say thank you for your openness and honesty regarding your situation. I hope you can spend some precious time together and I wish you and your family all the love that we all share on this site, warm wishes to you all.

[HHH2017]

I amso sorry to read your journey here to drawing to an end. Hope you can make the most of every last moment with hour family & continue to make memories. Thoughts and positivity are with you all, hope when its my turn I can be as brave as you xxx

[CarolingTeacher]

You are beautiful. Thank you for the thoughtful person you are and for your fun posts that lightened the burdens of so many others. I’m so sorry you’ve been given this news. Praying for a miracle—and comfort and peace for you and your family. May God keep you safely in the palm of His hand.

[MummaSoap]

Hi Sanpedro,

You are so very brave to face your future with such strength and courage.

I’m sure you bring much comfort to all those around you.

I pray that a miracle will find you and you may be blessed with more time.

Sending love to you and your family.

Best wishes

Soap 🧼

[socia]

I am so sorry you are in this state. God Bless you and your family. Praying...

[Sanpedro2019 in reply to socia]

I have the most comfortable careers .my son and wife .I am given the most attention. As a family we are trying lose ends and laughing a lot I am happy so many people praying for me thanks for all your prayers and support xxxx

[Swalecliffe88]

Hello I have not had the opportunity to speak to you before and feel it is so sad that my first message to you is to say goodbye. I sincerely hope you still have some time and ability to make some more precious memories with your loved ones. I wish you peace for your journey.

[Etblue]

Sending love and prayers x

[Glynnw]

i am so very sorry to hear this

[HHH2017]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. John will be missed. He had a really positive and humorous outlook and came across as so brave. When he told us end of life care was being discussed he talked about how important support from his lovely family was and making memories and laughing together! So inspirational and his approach really moved and resonated with me. You are all in my thoughts ♥️