I'm new here and have been really impressed by the level tone of the posts.
As a result of rheumatic fever at 13, later this month I'm having aortic and mitral valve replacement at 77, possibly with a 70% blocked LAD (left anterior descending artery) bypass - not sure until we see the surgeon on Wednesday 5th. Three and a half years ago I had a stroke and was recovering fast , walking 2 miles by the year's end. Only discovered HF after huge bouts of exhaustion diagnosed as stroke fatigue and too much exercise!! I should have been my own doctor and remembered my little old heart which had never given much trouble except on steep hills.
For now I would very grateful if someone could give me practical advice about how to cope with having 'no arms' after the op -- getting out of bed, washing etc. I've strengthened my legs with squats as much as I can. Can't visualise the thing!
thankyou