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Sensitive post- baby had no heartbeat at 20 weeks = heartbreaking


I really have no words right now to describe how heartbroken I am feeling- I was told at my 20 week scan my baby has no heartbeat & is dead.

I reacted hysterical & the outcome is I will probably have to have pills to bring on labour & birth a dead baby. I have requested a post mortem for cause of death. They have said they will run tests to establish on me to cause amelias death. They will also take foot & hand prints of Amelia. I have asked hubby to take photos of her, from our scans she is so beautiful I love her so much.

I will have to take a break from any social media- it’s nothing personal I can’t see baby pics I am broken.

I suppose our miracle baby Francesca will keep us going.

Rest in peace my darling daughter Amelia Daisy Martin we will always love you & never forget you ever Xx

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So sorry for your loss

Jess, I am so sorry to be reading this. I really am. Sending you hugs thinking if you and your family during this tough time. We are all here for you XXX

I’m so so sorry to see this. There aren’t any words that can take the pain away but I hope you know you’re being thought of. Big hugs xxxx

Oh Jess!! 😢 😢 This is absolutely heartbreaking. My heart sank as I read the title.

I am so incredibly sorry you are going through a loss Half way into your pregnancy.

Can’t even begin to imagine the pain.

I do hope you find strength to deal with the process on your beautiful daughter Francesca.

Sending all my love to you and your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I’m so so sorry to hear this horrendous news. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family xxx

Oh jess, so sorry for this, just take time to get over this please xx

Oh Jess, my darling I'm so sorry....there are no words.💔 Lots of

Oh Jess, I am so unbelievably sorry for your loss. There are no words. Sending so much love xxx

I'm so, so sorry Jess. I know there are no words, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for the strength to get you through this. Good night and God bless, little Amelia xxx

I'm so sorry for your loss Jess. You and your family are in my thoughts xxx

Omg Jess !im so so sorry I can't imagine the pain you are going through sending you hugs take as much time as you need to grieve my thoughts will be with you xx

I'm so sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking and devastating. I hope you are getting the support you need to help you through this. Thinking of you xx

Jess, I am so so sorry for your loss. As I read your post, my heart sank. 😥 Life can be so cruel. Sending you lots of hugs and love through this difficult time x

Very, very sorry, you came so far!

But something was wrong and you know this is for best.

Poor you.


Omg!!! I'm in utter shock. I'm so so sorry Jess my love. Sending you hugs gentle hugs. There's no words!! 😭💔 Rip Amelia fly high Princess. 😘💗. So so sorry lots of love 😭💔💗

Sending so much love Jess, I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

I thank everyone for such kindness. I am more hurt than I’ve ever felt. I hope they find a cause- right now I feel responsible for not keeping her safe. I hope she knows just how I love her. Got to delete this account- it’s too painful to have such reminders of Amelia . I wish everyone the best with their babies& pregnancies. My mobile 07711267585 for anyone who’d like to stay in touch. Perhaps I’ll return when I feel stronger. Xx

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We're always here for you sweetheart xxx

Jess I am so sorry for your loss. What devastating news for you and your family. Rest in peace Amelia. I will be thinking of you especially over the next few days. xxx

So sorry for your loss Jess.

I am so sorry 😔 utterly heartbreaking. Sending all my love and strength to you and your family ❤️❤️

oh Jess I’m so sorry

Jess ,

I’ve only just seen this. But I’m so sorry. Xxx

I'm sorry to hear that's happened and its just so cruel when you look forward to having a baby and then its snatched away from you.

I am sorry to hear this. No words can say anything to help you feel better. My thoughts are with you and your husband. Xxx

Jess I’m so very sad and sorry to be reading this. My heart goes out to you at this awful time xx

I’m so so sorry to hear this

Absolutely no words

U r in our thoughts xxx

Oh Jess, I’m so sorry to hear this. I can’t imagine what you must be going through after everything you’ve been through to get this far. Please look after yourselves during this awful time x

im so sorry for your loss😢😢😭😭. you will get through it

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