My Journey with Autism, ADHD, and Finding My Place

[XoWolfXo]

Hi, my name is Leah, I’m 22, and in 2023, I was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. Even though this diagnosis gave me answers, I’m still figuring out how to process it all.

Looking back, I can see the signs were always there. In primary school, I struggled a lot—teachers would move me between classes because I was the youngest, and they often labeled me a “troubled kid.” I also have a learning disability, which means my mind works more like a younger child’s in some ways. Teachers would always mention this to my mom, but she already knew something was different about me.

When I was younger, I was confident and talkative, but over time, I started having panic attacks. By high school, my anxiety became overwhelming. Thankfully, I had some support, and people started to realize that something was going on with me. But I still struggled to make friends, maintain eye contact, and often needed something to fidget with in class just to stay focused.

Whenever we talked about future careers, I always said I wanted to be a carer. But I was constantly told I wouldn’t be able to do it because my levels were too low. That really hurt.

After high school, I went to college, and for the first time, I felt supported, understood, and encouraged. My teachers believed in me, and when I told them I wanted to be a carer, they were excited for me. That gave me the confidence to go for it.

I got my first care job and loved it. A few months later, I moved to a new role supporting people with learning disabilities and challenging behaviors. But when I told my employer that I had autism and ADHD, they didn’t care. I was overworked, never had weekends off, and felt completely unsupported.

So, I moved again—this time to a company that truly understands me. When I told my managers about my learning disability and neurodivergence, they were kind, supportive, and reassured me that if I ever needed anything, I could ask them. For the first time in a long time, I felt valued. Now, I’ve been with them for five months, and I’m truly happy.

This journey hasn’t been easy, but I’m proud of how far I’ve come. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that the right environment makes all the difference. And no matter what others say, you can achieve your dreams.

[QuietButBold]

Hi Leah, thank you for sharing information about your recent positive job experience.

News items and social media often only focus on negative stories - so it is good to hear about your successful achievement.

I am pleased for you; that you have both:

a) been able to enter your preferred area of work, and

b) found a supportive workplace which suits you well.

[XoaLeahXo in reply to QuietButBold]

thank you I really appreciate ❤️

[Mybestfriends]

Hi Leah, lovely to read that you have found Support when in College & your now feeling comfortable & supported in your new Job, so glad you didn't give up on your path to where you want to be & type of Job, I agree the Right environment is crucial, to move forwards. Thank you for sharing your journey & very well done, Best wishes for the future.

[XoaLeahXo in reply to Mybestfriends]

Thank you ❤️