Hi all thanks for all your help and advice. I leaving the forum for my own sanity. I think I got too involved and it isn't doing my head any good. If and this is a big IF my daughter is a high functioning austic girl I might come back but for now I going to leave.
I am a bit of an over thinker and this sometimes makes my head spin. It me thinking too much.
I know my daughter has social anxiety disorder as disagnosised by CAMHS and her amazing Physicist. The next step we wait and see. Like all parents we want answer and we want them asap. I have to been patience and wait for things to happen.
All of what I have said on my post are just me thinking out loud and not being very wise letting my heart run away with me.
Now I going to step back and stop thinking about it. I going to take it my God and talk to my closest friend/s.
I hope and pray you get the answer you are all looking forward. God bless