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I'm feeling bit better tonight or I was hubby just asked me for a divorce talk kick a horse when down so not good he moaning about looking after me etc so not looking forward to going home now to much stress life can't get much worse sorry for rant

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Oh Tracey, I am so very sorry,. He is not much of a man or husband.

I hope you have friends, family that will be there for you !

Was this total surprise or welcomed relief in some way ?

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 will be praying for God's Favor in your life !

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Well he did mention it before Xmas but unjust thought he was joking as that's what he does but tonight he started arguing with e and came out it again said he's serious so I been bit gutted and upset but the ladies here been great x

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Do you mind if I ask how long you have been married? Children together? Stress can drive people to do and say things they don't really mean .

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Hi no that's fine it would b 25 years this September and 2 off his children ha adopted my aldest one his two r one girl 23 one boy 17 but he has been seeing other woman for years on and off I have just put up with it but now to far he's at home arguing with my daughter now as well my son said saying he never wanted her and I'm stuck here till Tuesday not good situation so got lots to sort out when I get back

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Off to bed now try and get sleep if I can hope u sleep well

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Ask nurses if they can give you something to help you sleep, if needed . 😘

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Amen to that

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So very sorry to hear you are having more problems..your husband sounds like a real rat, had another woman he is disgusting. You will probably find when he goes your life will be easier as you will not be living in such an unhappy home with him around.

My daughter's partner was a real rat and but she stuck with him out if loyalty, she suffered hay fever and became very depressed but when he went so did the dreppresion and her hay fever improved, so hoping when your rat leaves your health might pick up a bit as you will not be so stressed .hugs on their way ♥♥♥

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New life and new beginnings. You can do it! Lots of love xxxx

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I'm so, so sorry that this is happening to you :(

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I know it won't feel like it now, but you are better off without someone like him. What a rat. Think Kylie! Take care x

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Hi guys thanks for therapeutics feedback means a lot

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Tracey I'm so sorry that you've got more stress and problems, it's just what you can do without at the moment.

Take very great care.

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Thanks it is hard but got to keep going they keep changing the date when I going home as well

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Hi just caught up with whats happening to you. I have only been in hospital once for a burst appendix (before kids) and I was only a week in hospital. I remember wanting to go home after a 6 days wanting to go home but told I had to stay in as I had an

infection. I was really glad to be home two days later. Doctors know people get better quickly when they are able to go home. The doctors will let you home when you are ready to go home.

I pray you have the people around you need. I will be here on this forum everyday to listen and hold you up in pray to God.

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Thank u I'm in and out all the time either my local or the London Brompton where I am now get used to it just got the other stuff going on as well at home not helping but thank u for the support

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sorry to hear about your situation but went through a similar situation years ago. I found it very hard at first but I am now a much stronger person and have a very happy life with a partner who is willing to look after me now as my asthma is getting worse.

good luck and god bless and refuse to let them get you down, you are way better that that.

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Oh Tracey! Sorry to hear about this. Just got round to reading posts on the Asthma site - did BLF site yesterday. Sure you can all get along quite well without him. Such a shame though. As someone already said caring for some one can bring out the worst as well as the best in us all. Divorce is very stressful so take care of yourself and I hope if this comes about he makes sure not to make the process mor stressful than it already is for you.

Lots of love and hugs

Sian

Xoxoxxo

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So sorry to read of your marriage breakdown. I hope that you may have found life a little less stressful without worrying about what he is up to or thinking.

You sound a very strong lady and I hope your children and friends are keeping you going. Good luck for your op too.

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Ho thanks he's staying till after my surgery to help out so but award but I do need him while I'm having it done to help out we t talking which is a good thing and the kids want him to stay for a while till I'm strong again

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I'm glad he's there for you when you need him. Your the important one at this time and its good he's helping, Keep talking x

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Got to b hard after when he does go but life goes on and I'm strong I can do it got lots friends and family around me to help it's the kids I have to look after even though there old enough to look after them selves still need me x

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I'm really sorry to hear about that; how awful. I hope you find the strength to make the right decision for yourself & not let yourself be trampled on.

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Yea I will and thank U X

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