I am over the chest infection, have been back to the Dr armed with the questions inspired by the comments and encouragement and we now have a plan. Feels much better.
My Grandson has been in hospital all week. They think he has had Stoke (He is 13 months old). Lots of tests still to do but he s getting back the use of his arm and just gone home for weekend leave.
So life still a bit challenging but took the tip of a laugh a day and it works.
Positive thoughts to all Nanaeal