Unlucky or What?

[hawthorn]

had to get rid of my car ,so no transport .Caught the flu on top of that got toothache according to dentist it's a really bad infection in my mouth , found out my sister died ,and to top it all off got my answer for my dla for the third time applying was still no .

[elian]

Looks like you're getting more than your fair share of bad luck at the moment hawthorn

Sincere condolences on the loss of your sister and all good wishes that things improve for you in the very near future.

[Hidden]

I am really sorry to read your blog. It seems that life can throw everything sad and bad at the same time. Are you on your own, because you wont be on this forum. I am wondering that if you contact BLF, that there would be somebody you could have a chat and all the friendly people in this forum.

Getting rid of the car can be traumatic but there will be alternative modes of transport depending on where you live. Your health isn't good at the moment but with care, you could work your way through that. Bereavement is hard, but counsellors can advise. dla - you should get advice about that. Cant say much there.

Will end with the thought that you needn't feel alone -- all the very best from Annie80

[Preshous]

At the risk of sounding rude dont let the Ba*%$£ds grind you down. We had to give up our car 2 weeks ago and it was like losing a leg... . Losing a loved one is never easy no matter when it happens and I really feel for you right now having not long lost my mother. I do draw great comfort from using this site, we are after all in the same boat so to speak....

[hawthorn]

thank you for your comments has been hard ,im not alone have a lovely wife who does alot for me now aswell as all the other chores house ,dogs me then goes to work but never complains as she has asthma herself and lost family members she knows how i feel so i am lucky that way i have some to talk to aswell as the people on this site

[cofdrop-UK]

Hi Hawthorn

Very sad to read your blog - you are certainly having a very rough time at pesent. I can only echo the wise words of annie. Glad you have a wonderful wife who is obviously a great support to you and we are here for you too of course.

Sincere condolences to you and your family on the passing of your sister. I hope your situation improves for you.

Love C xxx

[Sylvsmum]

Not a lot I can add to the supportive comments so far, this really is a great site and somewhere you can let off steam! Agree with Preshous - don't the the B&^%$ get you down! But at times like this it is difficult to be positivie. Things, lalalala, can only get better lalalalal

[hawthorn]

Thanks for all the condolences well the only thing we are looking forward to is spending christmas with my daughter and her husband so hopefully next year will get better