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In memory of our Mum, Iris (Lyd12)

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I'm am so sorry to share the sad news of Iris  Lyd12 leaving us yesterday. I know she met many friends on this forum and sharing her poems and picture of her plates brought her much joy, she would talk of it often and the small (sometimes large) crowd of followers she would have. Thank you to everyone for bringing your friendship into her life in her later years.

I don't have access to mum's account so I hope you don't mind me tagging some who have replied to recent posts and pls feel free to share with others who will have known her.

Mum loved the irises but was also a big fan of daffodils - they were literally everywhere in our family home growing up - so I'll leave you with this classic from Wordsworth :

I wandered lonely as a cloud

That floats on high o'er vales and hills,

When all at once I saw a crowd,

A host, of golden daffodils;

Beside the lake, beneath the trees,

Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.

Continuous as the stars that shine

And twinkle on the milky way,

They stretched in never-ending line

Along the margin of a bay:

Ten thousand saw I at a glance,

Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.

The waves beside them danced; but they

Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:

A poet could not but be gay,

In such a jocund company:

I gazed—and gazed—but little thought

What wealth the show to me had brought:

For oft, when on my couch I lie

In vacant or in pensive mood,

They flash upon that inward eye

Which is the bliss of solitude;

And then my heart with pleasure fills,

And dances with the daffodils.

♥️Julian, Martin and Chris

Pls message me if you would like details of the service.

 sassy59  Donald_1931  Izb1  Patk1  Greenthorn  Ern007  Alberta56  janedivney  knitter  peege  watergazer  Dottie11  leo60  HungryHufflepuff

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Sydney08

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Nicholatracy in reply toSydney08

So very sorry to hear about your Mum. Many wonderful memories 🐞🐝

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sassy59

So sorry to hear such sad news Sydney. Iris was a much loved and respected member of this forum and we all loved her poems and photos. She’s now reunited with her beloved Tony so will certainly rest in peace. She missed him so much.

Deepest sympathy to you and family. Thinking of you all.

Please post details of the service if you so wish. Blessings to all xx❤️🙏🏻

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Sydney08 in reply tosassy59

Thank you all for your kind words. I am deeply touched by so many thoughtful messages. It gives me so much comfort to know Mum had friends around her for so long.

The service will be held at Memoria North Hertfordshire Memorial Park and Crematorium at 4pm Friday 14th March. All are welcome.

An online service will be broadcast watch2.obitus.com u: wili0081 p: 047265

I will also post the Order of Service on this thread nearer the time.

♥️ Julian

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sassy59 in reply toSydney08

Thank you for your reply Julian. Your mum was highly thought of and loved. She was such a wonderful lady.

I will try and connect to the service on the 14th and thank you for posting details.

Thinking of you all. ❤️

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leo60

I am so sorry to hear your sad news and wish you my sincere condolences. I hope her passing was peaceful and that you can take comfort in each other.

Thank you for letting us know, and with such an evocative photo and poem.

With love, Laurie xx

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Mellywelly

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing anyone is a wrench and anybody who contributed on this wonderful forum. Daffodils are one of my favourites too, especially because I'm Welsh. This forum is a lifeline in so many ways for people in time of need and also for advice. She will be terribly missed by all. Again, so sorry 😞 😔

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Blackbird8

So sorry to hear of your wonderful Mums passing.. her poems are and were a joy .. Deepest sympathy with her family and friends thankyou for taking the time to tell us she will be missed 🩷🧡💛

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Annscottie

When I first joined the forum your Mum's posts and poems were something I looked forward to reading.

Thank you for your post and please accept my condolences.

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Patk1

Deepest sympathy to you & yr family on yr mums passing.thanku for letting us know and sharing your memories & poem with us.yr mum was so kind sharing her lovely poems and plates with us .💕xxx

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Ergendl

So sorry to hear that Iris has passed on. Deepest sympathy to you and the family at this time.

Thanks for posting Wordsworth's poem about the daffodils. It was my father's favourite poem, and the farm where he grew up in the Lake District had banks of wild daffodils on the hillside at the back of the house.

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Karenanne61

My condolences to you and your family. Iris will be missed. 💐

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Donald_1931

Thanks for your thoughtfulness during this sad time Sidney, Your Mum was a much loved member of this Group for many years and will be very much missed.

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beech

I am so sorry to read of the passing of Iris, that is so sad. I read her posts and she always offered good help and experience.

Thank you all - Sydney08, Julian, Martin and Chris - for letting us know and I am so sorry for your loss. Much love 💐

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primrose123

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time Sidney, your Mum will be very much missed by all her dear friends here on HU.. With much love, 💘 & God bless.. Primrose 123..( Maria)..xx.

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Turnipgirl

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mum and please accept my condolences.

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Ern007

Thanks fir letting us know Sydney. She was a big fan of Iris and daffodils - So are Anne and I.

Wordsworth is a wonderful choice of poem, in particular "I wandered Lonley as a Cloud.

Deepest Sympathy to you and yours.

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Kitten-kat23

My deepest condolences to you, her family and her friends. My heart goes out to you all.

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Alberta56

So sorry to hear that you have lost Iris. A really lovely lady. Ski School found a horse with her name- Iris Dancer- which seemed appropriate somehow. The daffodil poem is so fitting too. I shall remember Iris whenever I read it. Condolences and love to you all.

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peege

Oh goodness I'm so sorry to hear your news Sydney08, you Mum was a lady through and through and I know she thought the world of her family . I can only hope Iris' passing was peaceful and painless, may she rest in peace . Very best wishes to all the family from Peege a.k.a Penelope

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knitter

such sad news , thank you for thinking of us and letting us know .

She made our lives brighter by sharing her Sunday poem , her poetry country plates , her posies from her beloved garden and memories from her happy life .

I especially remember the poem her mother gave Iris on her wedding day and the lace top she wore on her anniversary .

Condolences to all the family , her memory lives on .

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Greenthorn

What a lovely photo in memory of your mum. Its timeless and takes me back to my own childhood innocence. When I joined Health Unlocked your mum was one of the first people who I warmed to, since i found the plate pictures and verses so homely and reassuring. I soon realized your mum was a pillar of this community and greatly treasured. I'm sure we all wish there is a kind of celebratory service for your mum, lots of tributes and flowers and i for one would love to hear of the service sheet and choice hymns. God bless.David

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garshe

Condolences to you on the passing of your dear Mum. My thoughts are with you Sending hugs xxSheila 🥲

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Danielmystar

So sorry to hear of the loss of your mum may she rest in peace thoughts are with you xx

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MoosterMoo

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mum. Thought and deepest sympathy to you all at such a sad time 🌷

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Apollomycat

RIP Iris, beautiful picture

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2013mayo

so sorry to hear of your loss.

💐🙏🌈

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Kristicats

Deepest sympathy to you and your family for the sad loss of your mum.

She will be missed deeply on here.

Love Christi🩷🌈

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Rosydays

what a beautiful photo of times gone by.Sending condolences for the loss of your mum.

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Gingerboy1960

So sorry to hear the sad news. Sleep well Iris 💛

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B0xermad

Hi I am so sorry to hear that your mum has died (lyd12) my thoughts are with you and your family. Thank you for letting us know. 🌷

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Lee_Scoresby

I and my wife send you our sincere condolences for the loss of Iris. You are all in our thoughts. +

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PaulineHM

With love and blessings to you family and friends on losing your Mum.

Go well.

Pauline

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Izb1

So sorry to hear your sad news Sydney. I hope your mum passed peacefully. She was such a lady , we loved her poems and lovely plates. Wordsworth, I wander lonely as a cloud is a fitting poem to leave us with. She will be so missed here on site. My condolences to you and the family. As Sassy says please post details of the service x

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MoyB

So sad to hear the news but grateful that you have let us know in such a caring way. Thank you so much. xx Moy

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Digger0

So sorry to hear about your mum, I loved her plates and poems.

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madonbrew

Really sorry to hear of your great loss…and ours! What a beautiful photo! Iris will be greatly missed here.

Thinking of you and your family at this sad time!

Dee x

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Lupino

I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear Mum. The loving way you have shared such sad news and her love of daffodils will hopefully sustain you. X

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Numptybrain

So sorry to hear about Iris, the picture is so beautiful. Be kind to yourselves too as grief is a strong emotion and you yourself need to take time out to heal.Rest in peace Iris

Take care

Wendy xx

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PaperQueen

So sorry t hear about your Mum. My heartfelt sympathy to you and all the family. Sally xx

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Otto11

So sorry for your loss of your mum

May she rest in peace🌷

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helen1946

May your god sustain and comfort you and your family x

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Souielouie

so sorry for your loss 🥰💐🌼

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Collie4

That is sad news. She was such a friend on here, her poems and plates delightful.

Condolences to you and all her family.

( My dear late Mother was called Iris, such a pretty name.)

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watergazer

So sorry to hear about your mum. She’ll be back with her beloved hubby and looking down on you all. Iris was much loved and I’m sure all will miss her wonderful plates and poems. Deepest sympathy to you all xx

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Newstart3

So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mum. Thank you for sharing your memories with this beautiful photo and poem.

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jackdup

I am so sorry to hear of her passing. I have been a member for many years and fondly remember her many posts. My condolences to the family, very sad news.

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dunnellon

Sincere condolences to you and your family. What a sweet picture you posted.

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islande

so sorry to hear of the death of your mam condolences and best wishes to you and your family.

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JJ_7

So sorry to hear about your mother Iris. Thank you for the poem and pictures. ❤️

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joycet

So very sorry for your loss, Deepest condolences to you & your entire family. My favourite poem too .x

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Caspiana

So sorry to hear this. She was a wonderful lady. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Caspiana

Rest in peace Iris.
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RedDraig

So very sorry to hear about your mum, sending deepest sympathy to you all at such a sad time x

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Chorkie22

Sorry to hear your sad news. My sincere condolences to you & your family. Your tribute on here is beautiful... precious memories to hold always 💖

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HerLadyship

So sorry for your loss ...may Iris rest in peace. I hope you find comfort in lovely memories of your mum.

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Mavary

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how had it is to lose a loved one. All I can say is that Time can heal but you never forget. Xx

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Stratos20

That’s sad news. Iris was such a lovely lady. Thank you for letting us know. Diane x

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Shirleyj

Rest in peace Iris, you will be missed x🌹

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Sydney08

Thank you all for your kind words. I am deeply touched by so many thoughtful messages. It gives me so much comfort to know Mum had friends around her for so long.

The service will be held at Memoria North Hertfordshire Memorial Park and Crematorium at 4pm Friday 14th March. All are welcome.

An online service will be broadcast watch2.obitus.com u: wili0081 p: 047265

I will also post the Order of Service on this thread nearer the time.

♥️ Julian

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Greenthorn

Thanks Julian, I'm sure many of us would love to feel as part of that service on the 14th. I will make every effort to watch and may well play along with any chosen hymns!

I think it's a wonderful gesture on your part to invite us through this link.

David

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