Hi just to let you know that my husband Alan died a few weeks ago. He was only 59 but his lung disease had progressed rapidly after being diagnosed 2 years ago. Alan only posted once on here but we both read posts daily and took advice and inspiration from you all so thank you.
Debbie
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I'm so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. Sending heartfelt condolences to you and yours .. it might be a good idea if you stayed on the forum and popped in for a chat now and then when you feel the need ... 🖤🖤
My Condolences Debbie. Alan was too young to go at 59 I hope he is at peace now We are all here for you anytime you need a chat.Sending Welsh Cwtches xxSheila 😥🙏💕⚘
So sorry for your loss. Like Alan I don't post on here often, but do regularly visit. I agree with blackbird9 and think you would benefit from staying in touch with this lovely caring community on this site. Take care xx
Truly sorry to hear of your sad loss, Debbie. May BigAl rest in peace. I hope you feel able to come on to this site for support whenever you feel you need it. Please look after yourself at this very tough time. Sending warmest wishes, BB xx
I am so, so sorry to hear that. Such a young age. I lost my Mum two weeks ago and share your grief. Sending my condolences to you and your family and friends.I,like you, didn't post too much but came here for support and knowledge and am still finding comfort now somehow in the warmth and kindness everyone shows here.
As Blackbird suggests maybe stay here and continue being part of the community.
ps to my earlier reply. While we are all here for you and hope you find comfort amongst the forum family, there is a really supportive bereavement forum on healthunlocked.com. I have found comfort in my grief on there, although my husband has been gone 10 years this year, it can be somewhere to turn, in the middle of the night for example when you need to talk. Take care. Again so sorry for your loss 🦊x
I echo what JetJet and others have said ... maybe you can post a memory of Alan, a 'snapshot' or two in the coming months; something to share with us about Alan. This community is stronger for shared stories. You have a long horizon ahead - take your time. I am thinking of you and Alan. 💕
Good morning Debbie. I am so sorry to hear about your Husband . That really is a very short time after being diagnosed to sadly passing away. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time and I hope you have family support to get you through your loss. You will still make good friends for support on here if you so wish too. Take care and hope you can come to terms eventually with your loss. Brian
So sorry to hear this. Very hard for you to deal with. You will find support on this lovely forum any time you feel the need. Take your time and look after yourself ❤️xxx
So, so sorry for your loss I lost my husband 6 years ago and know how different/difficult life can be. Take each day as it comes use any means you have to lift your spirits a little each day. Take care Mags
I’m so sorry for your loss , my husband died in April , he was older and had been very sick for many years but loss in any circumstances is hard to bear . Somehow you do find the strength to carry on and staying on the forum with all its love and support does help 😊 Val xx
My thought and prayers are with you and your family. May the memories of your husband and the love and caring of family and friends help you during this difficult time. All of us are always here if you need to talk 🙏🏻xx
Sad news to hear of the death of Big Al. A young age must make it harder to bear. Heartfelt sympathies and hopes that you have support to help you through your loss
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